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Dating Your Ex’s Bestie

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So someone inboxed me asking for advice about dating her ex’s bestie. There are two things I can say about this, yes and no. If the breakup is recent, you’re vulnerable and you might have a high chance of regretting it later. If it’s been awhile and what you want…

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Cheating with the Cheater

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So this weekend I had a discussion with a few women that centered the topic of cheating with your ex on his current. If you were ever in a situation when your ex cheated on you with a mistress and he is with the mistress, him trying to mess with…

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How Young Is You BUT How Old is Old?

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A lot of us don’t mind dating outside of our age range. In fact, some of us prefer to date up because we want someone who is mature but sometimes dating someone younger is just what you need. However, there comes a point when you have to ask yourself what…

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Never Let Them See You Sweat

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My mother told me it was not nice that I referred to some women as whores, and she is right; however, if it looks like a whore and acts like one, it’s whore baby. As ladies, when a woman is blatantly pushing up on your man, the WORST thing you…

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Is Marrying Yourself is the Same as Having a Baby On Your Own?

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When I posted the article about the woman who married herself, it bugged me for days. I thought, if a woman can marry herself, why is that even an issue? Women do things on their own all the time. For example, women have babies on their own. While some people…

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Be Mine or Each Other

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I walked into Walgreens yesterday and almost threw up! There were so many Valentines Day hoopla everywhere that I thought, oh my goodness. Don’t let a single bitter woman come up in here! It was absolutely ridiculous. I propose, for the ladies who are single and even those with someone,…

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Post Breakup Blues

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One of my boujie girls sent me a message ranting about the bad behavior of their ex, post breakup. She didn’t understand how two people, who were once in love, are now enemies. I call this the ‘post breakup blues’. When a couple breaks up and someone is either guilty…

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The Break Up Fault

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I got some mail from one of my B Girls talking about a breakup between her and her main. She was coping and trying to understand the break-up and blamed herself. While reading the email, I looked to see what she had done, granted this is her side of the…

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Married to Yourself?

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So recently in the news it was reported a woman, Yasmin Eleby, married herself because she promised herself by the age of 40 she would get married; 40 was around the corner for her so she did get married… to herself. There are two ways of looking at this… she…

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Hump Day Files: Asking For Permission

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When I hear men complain that they don’t understand why women like bad boys, I look at them like they’re stupid. It’s not about us liking men who commit crimes, cheat on their women or are abusive; most women like assertive men. These so-called “bad boys” are very direct and…

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Amber Rose… Or Rotten Flower?

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This woman has been in the tabloids for years. Over the weekend she posted some sexy pictures of herself on instagram. Say what you want, but the woman has an amazing body. While some might call it a thirst trap, I think she is sending a message out to her…

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Why Are Breakups So Embarrassing?

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I remember being a college freshman and had this boo then we broke up… I just wanted to die. I hated telling people I was single again like it was a plague. But when I got divorce, I had a party and paraded the fact that I was a single…

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Do Women Really Hate Each Other?

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A friend of mine swears up and down that women hate each other. While there are moments when we pull out the claws, there is still a lot of love between us. The biggest trouble between women is fear. I’m not saying it is the only problem but it is…

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Well Wishers… Please Shut Up Part II

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Nothing pisses me off like someone who just throws shade on the changes in your life. Because you changed, you should be thrown out the cool kids club? If you don’t agree with how someone changed their life, then agree to just focus on yours. Smh! Let the Church Say…

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Well Wishers…Please Shut Up Part I

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What I can’t stand with some people is when something in their life changes, such as getting a nicer car, finally owning a house, making more money or getting in a relationship, they suddenly become an expert. If you want people to wish you well and not your downfall, because…

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