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Do We Cause Abuse on Ourselves?

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In a conversation with one of my sisters yesterday, we were talking about the Ray Rice situation. We were watching the video online and noticed his wife hit him first in the hallway then seemed to elbow him and spit at him in the elevator then all hell broke loose….

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Is it Cuffin’ Season Already?

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For those who don’t know what cuffing season is, it is the time of year, preferably the fall and winter, when people, who normally are single, decide to settle down for a season or two. This concept is so funny because the summer time is when you have fun and…

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Can You Forgive a Man Who Hits You?

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So everyone knows by now about the video of Ray Rice knocking out his then fiancé but now wife on the elevator. For some reason I thought this happened over the weekend but my coworker informed me that his happened months ago and they are already married. When I watched…

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Joan Rivers, Comedian and Talk Show Host, Passes Away at 81

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According to the New York Times: Joan Rivers, the raspy loudmouth who pounced on America’s obsessions with flab, face-lifts, body hair and other blemishes of neurotic life, including her own, in five decades of caustic comedy that propelled her from nightclubs to television to international stardom, died on Thursday in…

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Separate? For what?!

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The worse feeling someone can get is when their significant other asks for some space. The reason why people are emotional about this is because it initially is rejection from their loved ones. Why would someone, who you love, claim they need time away from you? There are a lot…

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Wedding Un-Invited List

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Friends of mine, who recently got married, discussed one major problem they had when they were preparing to say their vows. They told me when it came to the invite list, they couldn’t invite everyone and the ones who weren’t invited were a little pissed off. Let me just say…

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Miss Me With the BS

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I have recently found myself in the mist of some drama and gossip. The sad thing about this is someone I am VERY close to tangled me in some foolery that I don’t appreciate. They are in time-out for their misbehavior but I digress. What I absolutely can’t stand is…

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Breast Reductions and Implants

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Some people would find it hard to believe I actually used to wear a size G-H bra size. Depending on my weight, I am between a D or C. Breast reductions are mainly for the body frame and it, like breast implants, can boost confidence. Whatever you choose to do…

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Can We Get a Do-Over?

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Ever started dating someone and thought, we moved things too fast and now he is too comfortable? A girlfriend of mine started dating this new guy. She invited him over her house on the first date. They had a good time, no sex but things progressed very quickly since then….

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The Over the Top Boujie Lifestyle

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When people are “Keeping up with the Joneses,” by buying things, it is detrimental to their real lifestyle because they cannot afford it. I’m talking about major purchases you cannot keep up with such as homes, cars, boats, memberships, vacations and so on. A lot of debt in this country…

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Money Monday: Overspending Killing You?

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People are always being sucked into something either by friends, advertisements or their own wants. We go into a store to purchase one or two things and come out buying half the store. I am notorious for crap like that. I shudder at the thought of looking at my credit…

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Revenge Phuck Warrants…

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Anyone who has ever been cheated on knows the thoughts that run through a betrayed person’s head. We think about killing the person, killing the other woman (sometimes man!) or even ourselves. These dangerous thoughts manifest until we are ready to process the next step. When we are in our…

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Stop Injecting Yourself

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The pressures of beauty are inevitable. We are pulled into advertisements every single day. We can’t turn around and NOT see something portraying what society thinks is beauty. Thanks to Instragram and Facebook, all of these tiny waist big booty chicks are everywhere! A fellow boujie girl commented saying, “Where do…

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Date Night Part II: Date the Bestie

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We get so busy that sometimes all we do is text and talk to our girlfriends via gmail chat, phones or a Facebook/ Instagram comments. While this is better than nothing, it isn’t much. Setting up a date with your girlfriend is a must do. Date night with the besties…

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Date Night Part I

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When you have been in a relationship for a long time, things can start to get rather ordinary. It’s really important to keep things in your relationship fresh, so you and your significant other are happy. When life happens and you have jobs, children, church, responsibilities and so on, we…

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