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Married to Yourself?

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So recently in the news it was reported a woman, Yasmin Eleby, married herself because she promised herself by the age of 40 she would get married; 40 was around the corner for her so she did get married… to herself. There are two ways of looking at this… she…

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Hump Day Files: Asking For Permission

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When I hear men complain that they don’t understand why women like bad boys, I look at them like they’re stupid. It’s not about us liking men who commit crimes, cheat on their women or are abusive; most women like assertive men. These so-called “bad boys” are very direct and…

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Amber Rose… Or Rotten Flower?

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This woman has been in the tabloids for years. Over the weekend she posted some sexy pictures of herself on instagram. Say what you want, but the woman has an amazing body. While some might call it a thirst trap, I think she is sending a message out to her…

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Why Are Breakups So Embarrassing?

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I remember being a college freshman and had this boo then we broke up… I just wanted to die. I hated telling people I was single again like it was a plague. But when I got divorce, I had a party and paraded the fact that I was a single…

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Do Women Really Hate Each Other?

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A friend of mine swears up and down that women hate each other. While there are moments when we pull out the claws, there is still a lot of love between us. The biggest trouble between women is fear. I’m not saying it is the only problem but it is…

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Well Wishers… Please Shut Up Part II

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Nothing pisses me off like someone who just throws shade on the changes in your life. Because you changed, you should be thrown out the cool kids club? If you don’t agree with how someone changed their life, then agree to just focus on yours. Smh! Let the Church Say…

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Well Wishers…Please Shut Up Part I

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What I can’t stand with some people is when something in their life changes, such as getting a nicer car, finally owning a house, making more money or getting in a relationship, they suddenly become an expert. If you want people to wish you well and not your downfall, because…

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Just Say No

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They say if you want something done, ask busy people. Well most Boujie girls are quite busy and have busy schedules. One thing I suggest to my ladies this year, and I am working on this too, is saying “No” without explaining ourselves or just saying “No” to whatever. Phuck it,…

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Loser Alert: Revlon CEO, Lorenzo Delpani

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Allegedly, the CEO of Revlon, Lorenzo Delpani, decided to vocally express his opinion that he, “hates “dirty” Americans, thinks Jews “stick together” and believes he can “smell” black people when they walk into a room, according to a new lawsuit.” (NyPost) Now that just isn’t the boujie way sir! What a tacky…

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Time With The Boujie

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One thing I don’t tolerate and will continue not to tolerate for the New Year is insane tardiness. I am notorious for being late, I mean I can barely make it to work on time let alone an engagement. However, I am in constant contact with the person if I…

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New Year Old You

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I’m sure everyone is sick of the “new year new me” crap that is rolling up and down your Facebook and Instagram feeds. Here is the thing, people look forward to a new start and that’s ok. If you are going to look forward to a new start, you have…

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Gifts for the Boujie

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Gift buying for someone who you think has it all isn’t always easy. I have some tips that are great to buy the Boujie people in your life. Some can be kind of pricey but others are very affordable gifts. 10 Computers You can never go wrong buying anyone a new computer or…

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After the Wedding Day?

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Ok so hear is the deal, many women plan their wedding and not their life after the wedding. In other words they plan for the wedding day and not for the day after. They see themselves as a bride, in that beautiful wedding dress (Say Yes to the Dress), they…

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We talked… Well Texted…

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If you don’t always want to have a text message conversation with a man, keep the texting limited. I hate when I hear women tell me they have been talking to a guy for like a month and they only have had two or three verbal conversations. What the hell is…

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Real Housewife an Example of Real Life

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I watched last night’s episode of… sigh yes, the Real Housewives of Atlanta. It’s my guilty pleasure and yes, I am ashamed to say I watch that crap.  But the big thing about last nights episode was one of the Housewives, Phaedra Parks, husband is going to prison. I’ve blogged…

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