There is a lot f buzz going on in the reality show world, one being the show “Love and Hip Hop Atlanta”. One of the story lines includes a woman who recently got engaged to a rapper, with whom she has a child with. In the midst of a heated argument, he demands his ring back. Any woman who watched that episode probably shook her head because clearly that is not the boujie way!
With the recent Buzz of Beyonce’s new song, “Bow Down”, a lot of people are either making it an anthem or are against it. Some will come out and say it is a diss song, others are accusing her of being a part of the illuminati trying to get people to bow down to Satan, and some will walk around wanting people to actually bow down. <— GTFOH with that mess! #nottheboujieway
There is this new phenomenon about people dating people online for a long time without really “seeing” them. Not the boujie way! When dating online, invest in finding love. The MTV show “Catfish” has proven that people, who have no lives, set up completely different personas to fool people. If you are on a search for love, here are a few places you might find love. After all there are plenty of fish in the sea…just don’t catch a catfish!
All good things come to an end, especially in friendships. What happens when boujie girls find themselves at odds in a friendship gone bad with a cool person who is now their BFF’s enemy? Boujie Girl problems! To answer the question of girl code, if she is my enemy, she is yours? You can’t always be on the fence with people who do not associate well with your friends, period.
When a couple breaks up, what happens to the friends in the middle!? This is a topic many people struggle with and it continues to be debated. When you are thinking of boujie girl code, look at the bottom line. Remember, at some point everything you do cycles and will return. Put yourself in your girlfriend’s shoes with all seriousness and decide if you want to continue a friendship that may hurt her. When couples get together, they make friends and add to their friendship circle. When they break up, if it is a bad break up where war has been declared, ladies cut the bull and side with your girlfriend.
Boujie girls always have this issue with high standards with almost everything we do. It can be house buying, trading in cars and many times trading in men. When you are dating, is it as simple as math? Equal to or grater than?
Valentines Day is over and it is on to the rest of the year. Have Boujie girls been dating for no reason and still complaining about the “lack of good men” out there to date? As you start to move forward this year, it is time to think about what you are doing.
2013 is supposed to be a year of great things happening in your life. We kind of say that every year but there is something about surviving 2012 that makes this year extra special. With the economy at a slump, boujie girls are having a hard time finding their space in the universe.
BIO: Born on February 18, 1931, in Lorain, Ohio, Toni Morrison is a Nobel Prize- and Pulitzer Prize-winning American novelist, editor and professor. Her novels are known for their epic themes, vivid dialogue and richly detailed black characters. Among her best-known novels are The Bluest Eye, Song of Solomon and Beloved. Morrison has won nearly every book prize possible. She has also been awarded honorary degrees.
It is good to have sex for no reason or without purpose. Just because it is Valentines Day doesn’t mean you have to call up whomever and offer them the luxury and petting your kitty. After all, today is just one day, after tomorrow, how are you going to feel if he doesn’t want it or you wish you never did it? It is not the boujie way to act desperate. WTF is that about anyway?