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Can We Get a Do-Over?

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Ever started dating someone and thought, we moved things too fast and now he is too comfortable? A girlfriend of mine started dating this new guy. She invited him over her house on the first date. They had a good time, no sex but things progressed very quickly since then….

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The Over the Top Boujie Lifestyle

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When people are “Keeping up with the Joneses,” by buying things, it is detrimental to their real lifestyle because they cannot afford it. I’m talking about major purchases you cannot keep up with such as homes, cars, boats, memberships, vacations and so on. A lot of debt in this country…

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Money Monday: Overspending Killing You?

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People are always being sucked into something either by friends, advertisements or their own wants. We go into a store to purchase one or two things and come out buying half the store. I am notorious for crap like that. I shudder at the thought of looking at my credit…

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Revenge Phuck Warrants…

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Anyone who has ever been cheated on knows the thoughts that run through a betrayed person’s head. We think about killing the person, killing the other woman (sometimes man!) or even ourselves. These dangerous thoughts manifest until we are ready to process the next step. When we are in our…

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Stop Injecting Yourself

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The pressures of beauty are inevitable. We are pulled into advertisements every single day. We can’t turn around and NOT see something portraying what society thinks is beauty. Thanks to Instragram and Facebook, all of these tiny waist big booty chicks are everywhere! A fellow boujie girl commented saying, “Where do…

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Date Night Part II: Date the Bestie

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We get so busy that sometimes all we do is text and talk to our girlfriends via gmail chat, phones or a Facebook/ Instagram comments. While this is better than nothing, it isn’t much. Setting up a date with your girlfriend is a must do. Date night with the besties…

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Date Night Part I

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When you have been in a relationship for a long time, things can start to get rather ordinary. It’s really important to keep things in your relationship fresh, so you and your significant other are happy. When life happens and you have jobs, children, church, responsibilities and so on, we…

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Oh Crap He Cheated

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One of the biggest betrayals a man can commit is by sleeping with someone else. What makes it so hurtful is the reasoning behind it. For men, they can sleep with someone and it be nothing and still love you like they did the day before, which for some women…

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Would You Switch Places With Beyonce?

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It’s easy to look at a celebrity and think, Man I wish I could live their life. They have money, fame, likely an amazing body and are surrounded with other celebs. But what comes with that fame? What comes with having it all? If we really got everything we wanted,…

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Pretty Is As Pretty Does

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There is something about looking nice that can lift your spirits. You get complements, are more productive, your head is held up higher. Everything is all good. Then there are those days when we just don’t care. We don’t wear make-up, throw something on, barely brush our hair then we’re…

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Your Bestie Your New Boss

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Some people have no problem when their friends/co-workers become promoted and they are over them. They are secure within themselves and position to be ok with the fact that their friend is now their new boss. However, there are those of us who think we are ok with it until…

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Phaedra and Apollo For Better…

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Anyone who follows the Real Housewives of Atlanta is aware of Apollo Nida’s, Phaedra Parks’s husband, recent charges for bank fraud and identity theft, which he pleaded guilty for. Now he is facing 8 years in prison. Apollo, for anyone hasn’t watched the show, has been in prison before and…

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Angry Much?

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When someone we are close to does us wrong, we tend to turn away from them. Rightfully so because you were not created to be some kind of doormat. The fact that you stepped away from your loved one, because of they crossed you, is probably best for a little…

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Money Monday: Slaves to Our Careers?

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Not everyone can be a CEO. We need janitors, receptionists, security and so on. Without them there would be no balance. However, there are many of us who have the potential to be CEO material but we stay in the zone of “working yourself up the ladder”. Any smart business…

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Not With My Bestie!

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One thing with people, both men and women are guilty of this, is we can be very territorial. Just like little kids, once we deem something is ours, we pout when we see someone else trying to play with our toys, in this case, friend. When you have friends and…

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