Slut Walk or Shame Walk?


Amber Rose held her first annual “Slut Walk” last week. When I first heard that she was having one, I honestly didn’t care. I thought good for her because she’s been called a slut, whore or whatever how many times and she’s making a stand about it. Then I watched…

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Having Some Me Time


In the busy world we live in, we sometimes don’t take the time out to just breathe and do something for ourselves. We’re often being woman, mothers, wives, daughters, sisters and so on for someone else that we forget our own needs. It’s so important that we give ourselves a…

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Select Your Proper Shoe Size


When I was out walking my little dog the other day, I saw this girl step out her apartment tip toeing in high wedges. At first, because it was the evening, I thought she was hurt but then I realized, she either couldn’t walk in the shoes she was wearing…

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Zip the Lips.. A Woman’s Grace


I’ve learned, when you are going through something, it’s better to quiet yourself down before you speak. People are so quick to offer advice about your house when their own house is on fire. While I know the need to vent, especially for women, is important, clear your mind first….

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Do We Ever Really Get Over An Ex?


While scrolling through Instagram, I saw a quote that said you never really get over someone you really loved, you learn to live without them and the thought of not being with them. I paused for a second. I thought about my ex-husband and thought, uh.. yeah I’m over that…

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Artificial Balls?


When I think of cosmetic surgery, I think about boob jobs, face lifts, ass injections and so on. Sometimes cosmetic surgery is needed, like when I got my boobs done, I got them reduced. One thing that never comes to mind is if a guy has some kind of surgery. When…

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Cuffin Season


It’s the time of year when men start to either get their act together or continue to act a fool. For the single ladies out there, the “hey stranger” text messages are coming in because cuffin season is in effect. How come when it starts to get cold outside that’s…

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And I’m Back with Less Shit


There comes a time in a Boujie girl’s life when she just needs a break. Life didn’t hand me lemons this summer, it handed me shit. I choose to take a break from blogging because I had to get my shit (you know the one life handed me) together. I…

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Proposal With No Ring?


This question came across my desk a few weeks ago and I had to think clearly before I responded. A lot of women would think if a man proposes to them without a ring, he’s not serious. That isn’t always true. Sometimes he might have the ring and the reasoning…

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He Takes Your Last Name?


Zoe Saldana, the actress, got married and had twins. What makes her story so interesting, other than she once dated the hot Bradley Cooper, is her cutie husband took her last name! This was not her idea; it was his. Despite her telling him that he might get criticized if…

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The Boujie and The Bum

man holding a bowl in both hands, receiving a serving of soup from another man holding a soup ladle

The title is only to get your attention. After a meeting yesterday, I ran into a homeless man that I decided to buy dinner for. When he ordered something off the dollar menu, I turned to him and asked, “What do you really want?” He ordered a number 4. I…

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Being Boujie Mack For 5 Years


I’ve had my blog for five years today. It started off as a space to write after my ex-husband and I were separating and that was the most painful experience I ever had. Now five years later, looking back to where it all started, it’s a faded memory. That’s what…

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When Girlfriends Are Single


There is nothing like the support of your girlfriends when you and your main squeeze split. However, there are certain girlfriends you probably should let them find out on their own, rather than tell them. Others, you might need to make it clear this is not something you want to…

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Sleeping With The EX


This past weekend I had a lot of family at my house. When my cousin and I, with some friends, were talking about exs, my cousin made a valid point. When you break up with someone, sleeping with them puts you in a bad position. How so? You become the…

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10 Things Boujie Girls Are Tired Of Seeing


A lot of people are addicted to social media. I sometimes have to detox because it becomes too much at times. Other times, I’m on there and question my life because of the things I’m seeing. I post up statuses and pictures, like everyone else, like, comment and so on….

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