What Charlie Sheen’s HIV Status Means For Us


By now everyone has heard the news of Charlie Sheen announcing he’s HIV positive. He came out and announced it because he was hiding it for a while, four years I believe, and was being blackmailed. He’s not the first celebrity to come out and say he is HIV positive…

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Being Handy

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Here is what I’m looking to fill the handy bags with. Shampoo Conditioner Soap Deodorant Combs Brushes Toothbrushes Toothpaste Razors Shaving Cream Beauty products like hairspray, conditioner, etc Feminine Hygiene HUGELY NEEDED!!! (Tampons and Pads) Lotion​ Facial Cleansers Q-Tips Sanitary Napkins Wipes Nail Clippers Extras Include: Sox Gloves Snacks First Aid Kit If…

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High Standards or I respect Myself?


So the feedback I got from my almost date was I should have given neighbor boy a chance. Here’s why I say fuck no. First of all, it’s common courtesy to let someone know well in advance that you aren’t going to make an engagement. Do not wait until the…

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Bruh, Your Number was Never Saved!


After getting out of a long-term relationship, making the decision to date is important but annoying. It’s annoying because you have people in your ear constantly pushing others on you or saying you should “get yourself out there”. Let me tell you, those who are starting over, until you’re ready,…

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Dating is an Audition


When a single person decides they want to date, they make the decision to either date to find someone to be in a relationship with or to spend time with someone with no strings attached. Dating is the process is where we try someone out to see if we want…

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Pack Rat or Hoarder of Feelings


So in purging and getting rid of things from 2015, because yes it’s been a shitty year, not the entire time but major events led it to be pretty shitty so I’m getting a head start. There are things I’ve come across that aren’t mine. To be totally vulnerable for…

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Texting Someone’s Husband


So there I was having cocktails with friends and the issue came up with one girl being friends with her friend’s husband. The issue was the married couple were having problems and the wife, her friend, texted her to not reach out to her husband because they were going through…

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Slut Walk or Shame Walk?


Amber Rose held her first annual “Slut Walk” last week. When I first heard that she was having one, I honestly didn’t care. I thought good for her because she’s been called a slut, whore or whatever how many times and she’s making a stand about it. Then I watched…

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Having Some Me Time


In the busy world we live in, we sometimes don’t take the time out to just breathe and do something for ourselves. We’re often being woman, mothers, wives, daughters, sisters and so on for someone else that we forget our own needs. It’s so important that we give ourselves a…

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Select Your Proper Shoe Size


When I was out walking my little dog the other day, I saw this girl step out her apartment tip toeing in high wedges. At first, because it was the evening, I thought she was hurt but then I realized, she either couldn’t walk in the shoes she was wearing…

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Zip the Lips.. A Woman’s Grace


I’ve learned, when you are going through something, it’s better to quiet yourself down before you speak. People are so quick to offer advice about your house when their own house is on fire. While I know the need to vent, especially for women, is important, clear your mind first….

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Do We Ever Really Get Over An Ex?


While scrolling through Instagram, I saw a quote that said you never really get over someone you really loved, you learn to live without them and the thought of not being with them. I paused for a second. I thought about my ex-husband and thought, uh.. yeah I’m over that…

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Artificial Balls?


When I think of cosmetic surgery, I think about boob jobs, face lifts, ass injections and so on. Sometimes cosmetic surgery is needed, like when I got my boobs done, I got them reduced. One thing that never comes to mind is if a guy has some kind of surgery. When…

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Cuffin Season


It’s the time of year when men start to either get their act together or continue to act a fool. For the single ladies out there, the “hey stranger” text messages are coming in because cuffin season is in effect. How come when it starts to get cold outside that’s…

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And I’m Back with Less Shit


There comes a time in a Boujie girl’s life when she just needs a break. Life didn’t hand me lemons this summer, it handed me shit. I choose to take a break from blogging because I had to get my shit (you know the one life handed me) together. I…

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