Category Archives: The Ways

“The Ways” are a Boujie Girl Guide of how to survive this crazy world and maintain her boujieness. There are things and people to tolerate, things to accept, and things & people to reject. Maintain your cool and remember somethings need to be the Boujie Way!

Not With My Bestie!

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One thing with people, both men and women are guilty of this, is we can be very territorial. Just like little kids, once we deem something is ours, we pout when we see someone else trying to play with our toys, in this case, friend. When you have friends and…

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Don’t Budge On Your Worth

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Don’t lower your values because of fear. Sometimes we are in situations that we don’t particularly like. We may even find ourselves surrounded with negativity. And somehow when everything is happening, we start to blame ourselves as if we could help the world being the shitty world.  Sometimes when you…

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Whose Tab Is It?

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It is tacky for a man to ask you out and he doesn’t cover the entire bill or he asks to split the bill. However, if you ask him out, should you pay the bill? Here are the dating rules for asking men out. If you ask a man out,…

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Should the Size of the Bling Matter?

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One of our happiest moments is when a man gets down on one knee and asks for our hand in marriage. We get so excited to know this person wants to spend the rest of their lives with us. And to show his devotion, he presents us with a ring….

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They Don’t Matter

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If someone doesn’t know you, their negative opinion of you shouldn’t matter. People are quick to judge what they heard from someone else without getting to know the actual person themselves. We all are guilty of it but when they can influence someone else’s opinion about you, it can become dangerous. The…

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HUMP DAY FILES: Need Your Sexy Back?

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We all have our moments when we run past the mirror because we don’t want to see our reflection mocking us. A woman’s sexuality is power. It can get us what we want and it shows a lot of confidence. Still… sometimes we don’t feel sexy. In those moments, we…

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In-Law Blues

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It is one thing when you have to deal with the family you did not pick, but when you have to deal with a family you did kinda pick aww buddy, let the nightmare begin. Everyone, by this point, has seen the video of the Carter/Knowles family drama floating around…

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Hump Day Files: Break Ups… Who Gets The House?

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Ideally, when we get into relationships, we get into them because we really care about the person we are with. If it were always that perfect, there would be no need for break ups, prenups, or contracts. We have these things in order to protect ourselves in case something should…

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Other Woman Apologizes

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Anyone who has been cheated on is pissed at two people, their main squeeze and the other person their significant other was with. In a love triangle, we can accept (sometimes) an apology from our man but can we accept one from the woman your man cheated with? I got…

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Just Apologize

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There’ s saying sorry and there is apologizing to someone. While both mean the same thing, the delivery of them makes the difference in sincerity. When you have done something bad to someone, especially someone you are close to, apologizing for your actions will determine how that relationship will be…

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Gold Digging Really Isn’t Bad

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Now the title may throw some people off and likely pissed off some men out there but before you judge, read first. The definition of a gold digger is someone who dates someone for the purposes of using them for money and sometimes status, right? While using someone is wrong,…

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Nice Girls Don’t Win Either

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There was a time when I wanted to always be the most liked person on this earth. That changed when real life slapped me in the face and said people don’t owe you the same treatment back. I learned somewhere between my early to mid-twenties being nice doesn’t mean anything…

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How Much Do You Love Him?

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Yandy Smith, Reality Star and Business Owner of All Things Girls Love, fiancé has been released from jail. Smith is a power house career wise. She runs her own business, manages different artist in the music industry and is considered one of the most powerful women under 40. Here is…

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Potty Mouths, Cigarettes and Beer… Unattractive

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Growing up I remember being told from the Catholic School Nuns that we were supposed to act like ladies at all times. We were to watch our mouths, sit up straight and smile. That was simple enough when you are 12 but as an adult, I find being a lady…

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Super Power Heels

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I am certainly one who enjoys the comfort of wearing comfortable shoes. I do not like extra high heels that will hurt my feet within minutes. However, as a former employee of Nine West, I still wear heels and when I rock them, I kill it. There are certain types…

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