Category Archives: Not the Boujie Way

He hates Dogs…

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Ok so yours truly went on a date. Oh lord. We grabbed a bite to eat and some drinks. In the mist of conversation, I talked about my little dog because you know, I love him. He asked me if I’m ‘one of those chicks’ who is obsessed with her dog….

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How Do We Solve an Issue Like Tara?

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I don’t watch the Love and Hip Hop series anymore because of the buffoonery and foolishness they promote. But while I’m scrolling down Instagram, what do I see? One of the characters is pregnant by the dirtiest feet on the planet. Tara Wallace, reality tv star, is pregnant by her…

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It’s NOT Just Facebook

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The phrase, “It’s just Facebook” is no longer just a phrase. People are out here taking things really personally and I don’t remember when we made that shift of reality but it’s here and it doesn’t look like it’s going anywhere. My cousins had a falling out because one of…

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No More Facebook Friends

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Ever log on your Facebook page and just log back off cause you’re just so annoyed? That’s me but sadly I go back. It wasn’t the ‘new year new me’ posts that got on my nerves, it was the negative remarks that were everywhere. Facebook has become such a war…

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High Standards or I respect Myself?

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So the feedback I got from my almost date was I should have given neighbor boy a chance. Here’s why I say fuck no. First of all, it’s common courtesy to let someone know well in advance that you aren’t going to make an engagement. Do not wait until the…

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Bruh, Your Number was Never Saved!

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After getting out of a long-term relationship, making the decision to date is important but annoying. It’s annoying because you have people in your ear constantly pushing others on you or saying you should “get yourself out there”. Let me tell you, those who are starting over, until you’re ready,…

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Slut Walk or Shame Walk?

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Amber Rose held her first annual “Slut Walk” last week. When I first heard that she was having one, I honestly didn’t care. I thought good for her because she’s been called a slut, whore or whatever how many times and she’s making a stand about it. Then I watched…

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Zip the Lips.. A Woman’s Grace

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I’ve learned, when you are going through something, it’s better to quiet yourself down before you speak. People are so quick to offer advice about your house when their own house is on fire. While I know the need to vent, especially for women, is important, clear your mind first….

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Proposal With No Ring?

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This question came across my desk a few weeks ago and I had to think clearly before I responded. A lot of women would think if a man proposes to them without a ring, he’s not serious. That isn’t always true. Sometimes he might have the ring and the reasoning…

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When Girlfriends Are Single

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There is nothing like the support of your girlfriends when you and your main squeeze split. However, there are certain girlfriends you probably should let them find out on their own, rather than tell them. Others, you might need to make it clear this is not something you want to…

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