Category Archives: Not the Boujie Way

Breakup Babies and Twitter

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So I was, of course, reading celebrity gossip last week and found out the Chris Brown, the R&B singer thug life kid, has a secret baby. Real shocker right? Anyway, his on and off and on and off AGAIN girlfriend, Karrueche Tran, goes on Twitter and declares for the 15037943…

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Dating Your Ex’s Bestie

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So someone inboxed me asking for advice about dating her ex’s bestie. There are two things I can say about this, yes and no. If the breakup is recent, you’re vulnerable and you might have a high chance of regretting it later. If it’s been awhile and what you want…

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Never Let Them See You Sweat

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My mother told me it was not nice that I referred to some women as whores, and she is right; however, if it looks like a whore and acts like one, it’s whore baby. As ladies, when a woman is blatantly pushing up on your man, the WORST thing you…

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Amber Rose… Or Rotten Flower?

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This woman has been in the tabloids for years. Over the weekend she posted some sexy pictures of herself on instagram. Say what you want, but the woman has an amazing body. While some might call it a thirst trap, I think she is sending a message out to her…

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Do Women Really Hate Each Other?

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A friend of mine swears up and down that women hate each other. While there are moments when we pull out the claws, there is still a lot of love between us. The biggest trouble between women is fear. I’m not saying it is the only problem but it is…

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Time With The Boujie

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One thing I don’t tolerate and will continue not to tolerate for the New Year is insane tardiness. I am notorious for being late, I mean I can barely make it to work on time let alone an engagement. However, I am in constant contact with the person if I…

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We talked… Well Texted…

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If you don’t always want to have a text message conversation with a man, keep the texting limited. I hate when I hear women tell me they have been talking to a guy for like a month and they only have had two or three verbal conversations. What the hell is…

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Is it Cuffin’ Season Already?

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For those who don’t know what cuffing season is, it is the time of year, preferably the fall and winter, when people, who normally are single, decide to settle down for a season or two. This concept is so funny because the summer time is when you have fun and…

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Can You Forgive a Man Who Hits You?

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So everyone knows by now about the video of Ray Rice knocking out his then fiancé but now wife on the elevator. For some reason I thought this happened over the weekend but my coworker informed me that his happened months ago and they are already married. When I watched…

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Separate? For what?!

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The worse feeling someone can get is when their significant other asks for some space. The reason why people are emotional about this is because it initially is rejection from their loved ones. Why would someone, who you love, claim they need time away from you? There are a lot…

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