Category Archives: Not the Boujie Way

Wedding Un-Invited List

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Friends of mine, who recently got married, discussed one major problem they had when they were preparing to say their vows. They told me when it came to the invite list, they couldn’t invite everyone and the ones who weren’t invited were a little pissed off. Let me just say…

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Miss Me With the BS

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I have recently found myself in the mist of some drama and gossip. The sad thing about this is someone I am VERY close to tangled me in some foolery that I don’t appreciate. They are in time-out for their misbehavior but I digress. What I absolutely can’t stand is…

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Can We Get a Do-Over?

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Ever started dating someone and thought, we moved things too fast and now he is too comfortable? A girlfriend of mine started dating this new guy. She invited him over her house on the first date. They had a good time, no sex but things progressed very quickly since then….

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Phaedra and Apollo For Better or Nah?

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Anyone who follows the Real Housewives of Atlanta is aware of Apollo Nida’s, Phaedra Parks’s husband, recent charges for bank fraud and identity theft, which he pleaded guilty for. Now he is facing 8 years in prison. Apollo, for anyone hasn’t watched the show, has been in prison before and…

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Angry Much?

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When someone we are close to does us wrong, we tend to turn away from them. Rightfully so because you were not created to be some kind of doormat. The fact that you stepped away from your loved one, because of they crossed you, is probably best for a little…

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Not With My Bestie!

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One thing with people, both men and women are guilty of this, is we can be very territorial. Just like little kids, once we deem something is ours, we pout when we see someone else trying to play with our toys, in this case, friend. When you have friends and…

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Commenting on Someone’s Parenting Skills

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I am completely disgusted with how people have the nerve to comment on how other people raise their kids. When I saw Will and Jada Smith’s daughter, Willow Smith photograph with the older model, I didn’t think that there was anything wrong. It’s art! Apparently, I am one of the few people…

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Blasting Your Ex… Again

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I remembered seeing Kim Kardashian blast her ex on her TV show years ago and said blasting your ex is never a good idea. (Blog 2010) I now see in the media and other blogs that Kevin Hart’s ex-wife, Torrei Hart, is blasting her ex and his new girlfriend, calling…

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Co-Signing Nightmare

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My mother always told me never to co-sign for anyone. Build your own credit and get your own stuff. If someone needs you to co-sign on something, it is because they cannot get it and keep it themselves, which is why they need a co-signer. I don’t agree with everything…

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Girl Code: Secrets Stay with You

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It’s messed up when two people are not speaking then one or both parties decide spread their former BFF’s business around like the common cold. The most tacky and shameless thing a woman can do is run their mouth about someone just because they are not speaking to each other….

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