Category Archives: Break-Ups

   

Sleeping With The EX

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This past weekend I had a lot of family at my house. When my cousin and I, with some friends, were talking about exs, my cousin made a valid point. When you break up with someone, sleeping with them puts you in a bad position. How so? You become the…

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Choose Yourself

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The strongest power any woman can have is the power to put herself first. From birth we’ve been trained to be helpers because of our motherly instincts. We go on making excuses for people, being flexible in extreme situations and over balancing things for others. Then comes a moment, a moment…

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Fixing Your Life Part II: What We should Learn

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What We should Take From Karrueche Tran The authenticity of the Karrueche Tran interview on OWN’s Fix My Life is up for debate. Whether or not she did it to have her voice heard or to trash him, there is a lot we need to take from this young woman….

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Fixing Your Life Part I

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A lot of people tuned in to the Fix My Life show on the OWN network by Iyanla Vanzant. This week she interviewed Chris Brown’s ex-girlfriend Karrueche Tran, who has been in the media a lot lately over the recent break-up with the R&B singer. With the drama, social media…

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Breakup Babies and Twitter

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So I was, of course, reading celebrity gossip last week and found out the Chris Brown, the R&B singer thug life kid, has a secret baby. Real shocker right? Anyway, his on and off and on and off AGAIN girlfriend, Karrueche Tran, goes on Twitter and declares for the 15037943…

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Dating Your Ex’s Bestie

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So someone inboxed me asking for advice about dating her ex’s bestie. There are two things I can say about this, yes and no. If the breakup is recent, you’re vulnerable and you might have a high chance of regretting it later. If it’s been awhile and what you want…

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Cheating with the Cheater

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So this weekend I had a discussion with a few women that centered the topic of cheating with your ex on his current. If you were ever in a situation when your ex cheated on you with a mistress and he is with the mistress, him trying to mess with…

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Post Breakup Blues

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One of my boujie girls sent me a message ranting about the bad behavior of their ex, post breakup. She didn’t understand how two people, who were once in love, are now enemies. I call this the ‘post breakup blues’. When a couple breaks up and someone is either guilty…

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The Break Up Fault

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I got some mail from one of my B Girls talking about a breakup between her and her main. She was coping and trying to understand the break-up and blamed herself. While reading the email, I looked to see what she had done, granted this is her side of the…

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Hump Day Files: Asking For Permission

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When I hear men complain that they don’t understand why women like bad boys, I look at them like they’re stupid. It’s not about us liking men who commit crimes, cheat on their women or are abusive; most women like assertive men. These so-called “bad boys” are very direct and…

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