Category Archives: Ask A Wife

The Break Up Fault

large-18311841

I got some mail from one of my B Girls talking about a breakup between her and her main. She was coping and trying to understand the break-up and blamed herself. While reading the email, I looked to see what she had done, granted this is her side of the…

Share Button

Married to Yourself?

10934141_10205121910560310_7559695196868836720_o-378x265

So recently in the news it was reported a woman, Yasmin Eleby, married herself because she promised herself by the age of 40 she would get married; 40 was around the corner for her so she did get married… to herself. There are two ways of looking at this… she…

Share Button

Hump Day Files: Asking For Permission

42283_386951_395506

When I hear men complain that they don’t understand why women like bad boys, I look at them like they’re stupid. It’s not about us liking men who commit crimes, cheat on their women or are abusive; most women like assertive men. These so-called “bad boys” are very direct and…

Share Button

Well Wishers… Please Shut Up Part II

cynthia_1

Nothing pisses me off like someone who just throws shade on the changes in your life. Because you changed, you should be thrown out the cool kids club? If you don’t agree with how someone changed their life, then agree to just focus on yours. Smh! Let the Church Say…

Share Button

Well Wishers…Please Shut Up Part I

kenya

What I can’t stand with some people is when something in their life changes, such as getting a nicer car, finally owning a house, making more money or getting in a relationship, they suddenly become an expert. If you want people to wish you well and not your downfall, because…

Share Button

Living Together Leads to Divorce?

living-together-1

I was reading an article about people living together and how they benefits marriage. This one doctor, Amie M. Gordon, Ph.D. is a post-doctoral scholar in Social-Personality Psychology at the University of California, Berkeley, made some incredible points about how it can actually lead to divorce. I can’t say I agree with…

Share Button

Have A Life and A Husband Part II

overwhelmed-mom-1950s

It’s hard for me to recognize sometimes when I’m pushing myself too hard which is why it’s been important for my family, particularly my son to be open about when he needs me. I’ve always made time for his special events, and we usually had a weekly date night where…

Share Button

Have a Life and A Husband Part 1

hires

Now, I just turned 38. I’ve been married for the better part of 19 years, and my son is 14 years old. My first job was babysitting at 13, and I’ve worked pretty much ever since. So for the past 25 years, I have pushed myself well beyond exhaustion, put…

Share Button

Say Less Before Yes

beyonce-gif-honey-b-telephone-favim-com-372979

When we are watching what we are saying about ourselves and others, there is even less we need to say when we are responding to someone. When you are husband searching, learn to listen to men. When men say something, they tell the truth about what they want. Do not…

Share Button

Jealous of A Relationship Status? Don’t Be!

facebook-relationship-status-engaged

I like to read articles about relationships from a psychologist or psychiatrist perspective. There is a lot of research done of how people act in a relationship. This article I read was by a doctor named, Erica B. Slotter, Ph.D. who is a social psychologist and assistant professor at Villanova…

Share Button

Get Your Life

Are-you

It doesn’t matter if you’re married, single, dating, whatever, get your own life and do not become so absorbed in your man. Here is the thing, when you center your entire life around a man, you can end up not having one (Life or man). No one here is dooming…

Share Button

Wives Wednesday: What You Should Do For Him Part II

images

I’ve been with my husband for six years and married to him for two years.  Although we, of course, work to keep it fresh, at times it can be pretty routine.  Life can become more about completing tasks—cleaning, cooking, working, laundry, etc—than actually living.  The trick, I think, is to…

Share Button

Hallmark Marriage

tgp_marriageComic

There is no such thing about a perfect marriage. I have spoken to a lot of married couples who have been married for years and years and each of them have said it is no joke. We often think the biggest issue we’ll have is keeping our man from cheating…

Share Button

How You Talk To Him

TNMMaleHusbandEars_feature-588x260

There are three types of women. Ones who are blunt and speak their minds, ones who are more quiet and tend to bite their tongues and there are the ones in between, the firecrackers. There is no way to know which one she is and it depends on her mood….

Share Button

Fellaz Friday: How Wives Should Behave

giphy

I need my wife to blend in socially.  I know you not going be like everybody, but I do expect you to but at least make an effort. Given my personality, I give everybody a chance.  I won’t deny them a chance to get to know me and visa versa….

Share Button
Theme Tweaker by Unreal