Category Archives: Ask A Wife

Day 16 Who Are You Talking To?


Sometimes we speak negative things into our lives. You say things like, “I’ll never get married” or “men are shit” and are sad later when shitty men never marry you. It is really important, whenever you want something in your life, that you watch your tongue. Make sure you speak…

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Wives Wednesday: What You Should Do For Him


I’ve been with my husband for six years and married to him for two years.  Although we, of course, work to keep it fresh, at times it can be pretty routine.  Life can become more about completing tasks—cleaning, cooking, working, laundry, etc—than actually living.  The trick, I think, is to…

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Day 14: Face Your Faults


Today, before we go into the next week, I want you ladies to just focus on your own faults. We have to clean up house before we can think about moving someone in. No one is perfect, but at the same time, there are things about ourselves we have to…

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Life Coach Advice Day 13


Discuss the REAL reason behind those “argue over little things” moments! During the course of our relationship, many of us find ourselves disagreeing over whether the toilet seat is up or down, whether the floor should be treated as a hamper, or whether our partner replaced the milk s/he drank…

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Day 9: The Good Guy Part II

Fool boy is waiting his girlfriend

If he is good physically but doesn’t match you on paper, does that mean he goes in the no pile? The problem I have with dating a man who is not as educated as me is I don’t want anyone at any time to throw in my face that I…

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Ask A Wife: Helen Rhoads


If you don’t pay any attention to the rest of the blog posts I write/ post, listen to this. DO NOT marry a person you are not willing to FIGHT tooth-and-nail, to-the-death for!!  Just don’t do it. Now, before you go saying “but what about” or “but you don’t know about”,…

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Guest Blogger: Helen Rhoads


Hey everybody!  For those of you who don’t know me, my name’s Helen Rhoads.  I’m just a simple Southern girl, born and raised in Montgomery, Alabama, living life in the big city of Atlanta.  I’m the oldest of three children and have awesome parents. I grew up going to public…

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Day 7: Gray Area Good Guy


So we are defining what we are looking for in a husband. We have to know what we can and can not live with. Then there is the gray area. Let’s focus on the Good Guy in the gray area. Since we can’t build a man from scratch, we have…

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Day 6: Do You Match Your Mate?


I’ve discussed this on here before about ‘matching your mate’. Sometimes women have high expectations they want in a man but they don’t add up to what they are asking for. For example, you want your man to be tall, have a lot of money and great credit, but you…

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Video Blog 1 for #GETMARRIED


This is the first of many video blogs I’m creating so we can evolve through this journey and challenge. I will post one up each week to check in and review some of the things we discussed throughout the week! See you on the blogs! Feeling fabulous… Boujie Mack

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Fellez Friday: What Do You Want In a Husband Part II


Mr. Perfect There is no such thing as a perfect man. You have to have a trade off somewhere. At some point you might meet the perfect man but he may not physically look the way you want. I’m not saying he’s going to be a sloppy looking thing but…

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Fellez Friday: What Do You Want In a Husband?


Next Friday I am going to have a designer friend of mine post on the blog about what he is looking for in a woman he is dating and wants to consider his wife. He discusses what he sees in women vying for the position but won’t make the cut….

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Day Two: Who Are You?


Before we can start to think about marriage, we have to know ourselves. It goes beyond describing yourself as a “…beautiful, intelligent and independent”  woman. When you know yourself, you know the good and the bad. You have to be honest with who you are as a woman and own…

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Day One: Why Do You Want to Get Married?


Today is the first day of the challenge. I am asking all of you ladies, who are doing it, to keep a journal throughout the process. You are going to take notes and journal what you are learning about yourself. To begin, the first question I want to ask is…

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Let’s Get Married!


I keep hearing a lot of women talk about wanting to get married and thinking that they are ready for marriage. Some are in relationships and want their significant other to propose, others are waiting for Mr. Right to swoop in and marry them soon. Either way, there is a…

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