Category Archives: Ask A Wife

Do We Cause Abuse on Ourselves?

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In a conversation with one of my sisters yesterday, we were talking about the Ray Rice situation. We were watching the video online and noticed his wife hit him first in the hallway then seemed to elbow him and spit at him in the elevator then all hell broke loose….

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Is it Cuffin’ Season Already?

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For those who don’t know what cuffing season is, it is the time of year, preferably the fall and winter, when people, who normally are single, decide to settle down for a season or two. This concept is so funny because the summer time is when you have fun and…

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Can You Forgive a Man Who Hits You?

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So everyone knows by now about the video of Ray Rice knocking out his then fiancé but now wife on the elevator. For some reason I thought this happened over the weekend but my coworker informed me that his happened months ago and they are already married. When I watched…

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Separate? For what?!

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The worse feeling someone can get is when their significant other asks for some space. The reason why people are emotional about this is because it initially is rejection from their loved ones. Why would someone, who you love, claim they need time away from you? There are a lot…

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Wedding Un-Invited List

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Friends of mine, who recently got married, discussed one major problem they had when they were preparing to say their vows. They told me when it came to the invite list, they couldn’t invite everyone and the ones who weren’t invited were a little pissed off. Let me just say…

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Miss Me With the BS

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I have recently found myself in the mist of some drama and gossip. The sad thing about this is someone I am VERY close to tangled me in some foolery that I don’t appreciate. They are in time-out for their misbehavior but I digress. What I absolutely can’t stand is…

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Breast Reductions and Implants

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Some people would find it hard to believe I actually used to wear a size G-H bra size. Depending on my weight, I am between a D or C. Breast reductions are mainly for the body frame and it, like breast implants, can boost confidence. Whatever you choose to do…

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Revenge Phuck Warrants…

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Anyone who has ever been cheated on knows the thoughts that run through a betrayed person’s head. We think about killing the person, killing the other woman (sometimes man!) or even ourselves. These dangerous thoughts manifest until we are ready to process the next step. When we are in our…

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Date Night Part II: Date the Bestie

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We get so busy that sometimes all we do is text and talk to our girlfriends via gmail chat, phones or a Facebook/ Instagram comments. While this is better than nothing, it isn’t much. Setting up a date with your girlfriend is a must do. Date night with the besties…

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Date Night Part I

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When you have been in a relationship for a long time, things can start to get rather ordinary. It’s really important to keep things in your relationship fresh, so you and your significant other are happy. When life happens and you have jobs, children, church, responsibilities and so on, we…

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Oh Crap He Cheated

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One of the biggest betrayals a man can commit is by sleeping with someone else. What makes it so hurtful is the reasoning behind it. For men, they can sleep with someone and it be nothing and still love you like they did the day before, which for some women…

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Would You Switch Places With Beyonce?

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It’s easy to look at a celebrity and think, Man I wish I could live their life. They have money, fame, likely an amazing body and are surrounded with other celebs. But what comes with that fame? What comes with having it all? If we really got everything we wanted,…

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Pretty Is As Pretty Does

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There is something about looking nice that can lift your spirits. You get complements, are more productive, your head is held up higher. Everything is all good. Then there are those days when we just don’t care. We don’t wear make-up, throw something on, barely brush our hair then we’re…

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Phaedra and Apollo For Better or Nah?

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Anyone who follows the Real Housewives of Atlanta is aware of Apollo Nida’s, Phaedra Parks’s husband, recent charges for bank fraud and identity theft, which he pleaded guilty for. Now he is facing 8 years in prison. Apollo, for anyone hasn’t watched the show, has been in prison before and…

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Angry Much?

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When someone we are close to does us wrong, we tend to turn away from them. Rightfully so because you were not created to be some kind of doormat. The fact that you stepped away from your loved one, because of they crossed you, is probably best for a little…

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