Category Archives: Ask Mack

Cheating with the Cheater

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So this weekend I had a discussion with a few women that centered the topic of cheating with your ex on his current. If you were ever in a situation when your ex cheated on you with a mistress and he is with the mistress, him trying to mess with…

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How Young Is You BUT How Old is Old?

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A lot of us don’t mind dating outside of our age range. In fact, some of us prefer to date up because we want someone who is mature but sometimes dating someone younger is just what you need. However, there comes a point when you have to ask yourself what…

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Never Let Them See You Sweat

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My mother told me it was not nice that I referred to some women as whores, and she is right; however, if it looks like a whore and acts like one, it’s whore baby. As ladies, when a woman is blatantly pushing up on your man, the WORST thing you…

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Is Marrying Yourself is the Same as Having a Baby On Your Own?

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When I posted the article about the woman who married herself, it bugged me for days. I thought, if a woman can marry herself, why is that even an issue? Women do things on their own all the time. For example, women have babies on their own. While some people…

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The Break Up Fault

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I got some mail from one of my B Girls talking about a breakup between her and her main. She was coping and trying to understand the break-up and blamed herself. While reading the email, I looked to see what she had done, granted this is her side of the…

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Married to Yourself?

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So recently in the news it was reported a woman, Yasmin Eleby, married herself because she promised herself by the age of 40 she would get married; 40 was around the corner for her so she did get married… to herself. There are two ways of looking at this… she…

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Hump Day Files: Asking For Permission

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When I hear men complain that they don’t understand why women like bad boys, I look at them like they’re stupid. It’s not about us liking men who commit crimes, cheat on their women or are abusive; most women like assertive men. These so-called “bad boys” are very direct and…

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Well Wishers… Please Shut Up Part II

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Nothing pisses me off like someone who just throws shade on the changes in your life. Because you changed, you should be thrown out the cool kids club? If you don’t agree with how someone changed their life, then agree to just focus on yours. Smh! Let the Church Say…

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Well Wishers…Please Shut Up Part I

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What I can’t stand with some people is when something in their life changes, such as getting a nicer car, finally owning a house, making more money or getting in a relationship, they suddenly become an expert. If you want people to wish you well and not your downfall, because…

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Jealous of A Relationship Status? Don’t Be!

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I like to read articles about relationships from a psychologist or psychiatrist perspective. There is a lot of research done of how people act in a relationship. This article I read was by a doctor named, Erica B. Slotter, Ph.D. who is a social psychologist and assistant professor at Villanova…

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Do We Cause Abuse on Ourselves?

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In a conversation with one of my sisters yesterday, we were talking about the Ray Rice situation. We were watching the video online and noticed his wife hit him first in the hallway then seemed to elbow him and spit at him in the elevator then all hell broke loose….

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Is it Cuffin’ Season Already?

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For those who don’t know what cuffing season is, it is the time of year, preferably the fall and winter, when people, who normally are single, decide to settle down for a season or two. This concept is so funny because the summer time is when you have fun and…

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Can You Forgive a Man Who Hits You?

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So everyone knows by now about the video of Ray Rice knocking out his then fiancé but now wife on the elevator. For some reason I thought this happened over the weekend but my coworker informed me that his happened months ago and they are already married. When I watched…

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Miss Me With the BS

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I have recently found myself in the mist of some drama and gossip. The sad thing about this is someone I am VERY close to tangled me in some foolery that I don’t appreciate. They are in time-out for their misbehavior but I digress. What I absolutely can’t stand is…

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Breast Reductions and Implants

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Some people would find it hard to believe I actually used to wear a size G-H bra size. Depending on my weight, I am between a D or C. Breast reductions are mainly for the body frame and it, like breast implants, can boost confidence. Whatever you choose to do…

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