Category Archives: Ask Mack

They Don’t Matter

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If someone doesn’t know you, their negative opinion of you shouldn’t matter. People are quick to judge what they heard from someone else without getting to know the actual person themselves. We all are guilty of it but when they can influence someone else’s opinion about you, it can become dangerous. The…

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HUMP DAY FILES: Need Your Sexy Back?

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We all have our moments when we run past the mirror because we don’t want to see our reflection mocking us. A woman’s sexuality is power. It can get us what we want and it shows a lot of confidence. Still… sometimes we don’t feel sexy. In those moments, we…

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Commenting on Someone’s Parenting Skills

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I am completely disgusted with how people have the nerve to comment on how other people raise their kids. When I saw Will and Jada Smith’s daughter, Willow Smith photograph with the older model, I didn’t think that there was anything wrong. It’s art! Apparently, I am one of the few people…

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Blasting Your Ex… Again

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I remembered seeing Kim Kardashian blast her ex on her TV show years ago and said blasting your ex is never a good idea. (Blog 2010) I now see in the media and other blogs that Kevin Hart’s ex-wife, Torrei Hart, is blasting her ex and his new girlfriend, calling…

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Hump Day Files: Living with Double Everything

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Moving in with one another is fun. You get to run around from place to place, trying to find that perfect nest. When you finally find one you can call home, it is time to pack and start a new life. The only problem is when two individuals come together, there…

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In-Law Blues

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It is one thing when you have to deal with the family you did not pick, but when you have to deal with a family you did kinda pick aww buddy, let the nightmare begin. Everyone, by this point, has seen the video of the Carter/Knowles family drama floating around…

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Single Mom the New Trend

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While growing up, it has been drilled in our heads the importance of having a husband and creating children. With the women are so far gone with their independence, the new trend is to have a baby alone. The thought of raising a child on your own, at some point…

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Co-Signing Nightmare

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My mother always told me never to co-sign for anyone. Build your own credit and get your own stuff. If someone needs you to co-sign on something, it is because they cannot get it and keep it themselves, which is why they need a co-signer. I don’t agree with everything…

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Hump Day Files: Break Ups… Who Gets The House?

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Ideally, when we get into relationships, we get into them because we really care about the person we are with. If it were always that perfect, there would be no need for break ups, prenups, or contracts. We have these things in order to protect ourselves in case something should…

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Girl Code: Secrets Stay with You

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It’s messed up when two people are not speaking then one or both parties decide spread their former BFF’s business around like the common cold. The most tacky and shameless thing a woman can do is run their mouth about someone just because they are not speaking to each other….

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Other Woman Apologizes

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Anyone who has been cheated on is pissed at two people, their main squeeze and the other person their significant other was with. In a love triangle, we can accept (sometimes) an apology from our man but can we accept one from the woman your man cheated with? I got…

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Gold Digging Really Isn’t Bad

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Now the title may throw some people off and likely pissed off some men out there but before you judge, read first. The definition of a gold digger is someone who dates someone for the purposes of using them for money and sometimes status, right? While using someone is wrong,…

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Face My Body… The Seriousness of Suicide

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This week a fellow blogger, Karyn Washington, 22, Creator of For Brown Girls Blog has reportedly committed suicide. This comes as shock to many people because she blogged about women of color valuing themselves and appreciating who they are, despite what society may think of them. She especially wanted to…

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Nice Girls Don’t Win Either

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There was a time when I wanted to always be the most liked person on this earth. That changed when real life slapped me in the face and said people don’t owe you the same treatment back. I learned somewhere between my early to mid-twenties being nice doesn’t mean anything…

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Putting it Off… The Dangers

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Hump Day is usually a day when most people honestly don’t get humped. The phrase used to and still does represent the middle of the work week and people are generally tired. What happened if this exhaustion continues? What if you work to the point that you become so drained…

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