Category Archives: Boujie Diaries

Can You Talk To Your Ex

So a friend of mine tagged me in this post on Facebook about two exes talking to each other in a room and sitting across from one another. (Link at the bottom) It was an honest conversation between two young people about what happened to their relationship. With him cheating,…

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Who’s Your Valentine?

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Valentines Day is one of those days that either gets you excited or makes you depressed. Personally, I love Valentines Day. Why? A reason to eat a lot of chocolate without judgment? I’m there. The reason people hate it is because they might feel like they don’t have someone to…

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Online Dating: Match.com verses Tinder

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Getting your feet wet in the world of dating is the most daunting, worst, uncomfortable and fun thing that will happen before you settle down. One place a lot of people start is to try online dating. My sister, yes you Erika, has suggested I try Tinder, just to get…

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He hates Dogs…

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Ok so yours truly went on a date. Oh lord. We grabbed a bite to eat and some drinks. In the mist of conversation, I talked about my little dog because you know, I love him. He asked me if I’m ‘one of those chicks’ who is obsessed with her dog….

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What’s Your Creed?

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So I watched the movie Creed this weekend. I must say it was an incredible movie. What I really liked about the movie, and I won’t give away the plot, is the idea of owning who you are and start by looking in the mirror. How many of us make…

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Dateless Boujie Mack

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Nothing annoys me more than a man who’s just plain stupid. They say you can’t measure intelligence but some men are 6 feet of just plain stupid. I was talking to this guy, recently, and he was asking what I did for a living. I told him and he said…

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High Standards or I respect Myself?

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So the feedback I got from my almost date was I should have given neighbor boy a chance. Here’s why I say fuck no. First of all, it’s common courtesy to let someone know well in advance that you aren’t going to make an engagement. Do not wait until the…

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Bruh, Your Number was Never Saved!

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After getting out of a long-term relationship, making the decision to date is important but annoying. It’s annoying because you have people in your ear constantly pushing others on you or saying you should “get yourself out there”. Let me tell you, those who are starting over, until you’re ready,…

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Pack Rat or Hoarder of Feelings

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So in purging and getting rid of things from 2015, because yes it’s been a shitty year, not the entire time but major events led it to be pretty shitty so I’m getting a head start. There are things I’ve come across that aren’t mine. To be totally vulnerable for…

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Texting Someone’s Husband

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So there I was having cocktails with friends and the issue came up with one girl being friends with her friend’s husband. The issue was the married couple were having problems and the wife, her friend, texted her to not reach out to her husband because they were going through…

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Zip the Lips.. A Woman’s Grace

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I’ve learned, when you are going through something, it’s better to quiet yourself down before you speak. People are so quick to offer advice about your house when their own house is on fire. While I know the need to vent, especially for women, is important, clear your mind first….

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Do We Ever Really Get Over An Ex?

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While scrolling through Instagram, I saw a quote that said you never really get over someone you really loved, you learn to live without them and the thought of not being with them. I paused for a second. I thought about my ex-husband and thought, uh.. yeah I’m over that…

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Not Talking To Me Honey

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I was supposed to go on a date with a guy and cancelled last minute because I just wasn’t ready to date. I was newly single and was overwhelmed. Well he called me at 2 am and cursed me out saying I could have been the one and I was…

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