Category Archives: Boujie Love

Pack Rat or Hoarder of Feelings

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So in purging and getting rid of things from 2015, because yes it’s been a shitty year, not the entire time but major events led it to be pretty shitty so I’m getting a head start. There are things I’ve come across that aren’t mine. To be totally vulnerable for…

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Texting Someone’s Husband

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So there I was having cocktails with friends and the issue came up with one girl being friends with her friend’s husband. The issue was the married couple were having problems and the wife, her friend, texted her to not reach out to her husband because they were going through…

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Do We Ever Really Get Over An Ex?

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While scrolling through Instagram, I saw a quote that said you never really get over someone you really loved, you learn to live without them and the thought of not being with them. I paused for a second. I thought about my ex-husband and thought, uh.. yeah I’m over that…

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Artificial Balls?

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When I think of cosmetic surgery, I think about boob jobs, face lifts, ass injections and so on. Sometimes cosmetic surgery is needed, like when I got my boobs done, I got them reduced. One thing that never comes to mind is if a guy has some kind of surgery. When…

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Proposal With No Ring?

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This question came across my desk a few weeks ago and I had to think clearly before I responded. A lot of women would think if a man proposes to them without a ring, he’s not serious. That isn’t always true. Sometimes he might have the ring and the reasoning…

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He Takes Your Last Name?

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Zoe Saldana, the actress, got married and had twins. What makes her story so interesting, other than she once dated the hot Bradley Cooper, is her cutie husband took her last name! This was not her idea; it was his. Despite her telling him that he might get criticized if…

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Sleeping With The EX

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This past weekend I had a lot of family at my house. When my cousin and I, with some friends, were talking about exs, my cousin made a valid point. When you break up with someone, sleeping with them puts you in a bad position. How so? You become the…

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Too Successful for A Man

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A lot of successful women find themselves checking single on their income taxes, while some other women, who are not as career driven find themselves very married. The running joke of 2015, amongst successful women, is “If I were on welfare, I’d be married.” This joke derives from women thinking…

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Fixing Your Life Part II: What We should Learn

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What We should Take From Karrueche Tran The authenticity of the Karrueche Tran interview on OWN’s Fix My Life is up for debate. Whether or not she did it to have her voice heard or to trash him, there is a lot we need to take from this young woman….

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Fixing Your Life Part I

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A lot of people tuned in to the Fix My Life show on the OWN network by Iyanla Vanzant. This week she interviewed Chris Brown’s ex-girlfriend Karrueche Tran, who has been in the media a lot lately over the recent break-up with the R&B singer. With the drama, social media…

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Dating Your Ex’s Bestie

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So someone inboxed me asking for advice about dating her ex’s bestie. There are two things I can say about this, yes and no. If the breakup is recent, you’re vulnerable and you might have a high chance of regretting it later. If it’s been awhile and what you want…

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Cheating with the Cheater

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So this weekend I had a discussion with a few women that centered the topic of cheating with your ex on his current. If you were ever in a situation when your ex cheated on you with a mistress and he is with the mistress, him trying to mess with…

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How Young Is You BUT How Old is Old?

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A lot of us don’t mind dating outside of our age range. In fact, some of us prefer to date up because we want someone who is mature but sometimes dating someone younger is just what you need. However, there comes a point when you have to ask yourself what…

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Never Let Them See You Sweat

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My mother told me it was not nice that I referred to some women as whores, and she is right; however, if it looks like a whore and acts like one, it’s whore baby. As ladies, when a woman is blatantly pushing up on your man, the WORST thing you…

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Post Breakup Blues

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One of my boujie girls sent me a message ranting about the bad behavior of their ex, post breakup. She didn’t understand how two people, who were once in love, are now enemies. I call this the ‘post breakup blues’. When a couple breaks up and someone is either guilty…

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