Category Archives: Boujie Love

Hump Day Files: Asking For Permission

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When I hear men complain that they don’t understand why women like bad boys, I look at them like they’re stupid. It’s not about us liking men who commit crimes, cheat on their women or are abusive; most women like assertive men. These so-called “bad boys” are very direct and…

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Let’s Get Married!

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I keep hearing a lot of women talk about wanting to get married and thinking that they are ready for marriage. Some are in relationships and want their significant other to propose, others are waiting for Mr. Right to swoop in and marry them soon. Either way, there is a…

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Do We Cause Abuse on Ourselves?

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In a conversation with one of my sisters yesterday, we were talking about the Ray Rice situation. We were watching the video online and noticed his wife hit him first in the hallway then seemed to elbow him and spit at him in the elevator then all hell broke loose….

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Is it Cuffin’ Season Already?

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For those who don’t know what cuffing season is, it is the time of year, preferably the fall and winter, when people, who normally are single, decide to settle down for a season or two. This concept is so funny because the summer time is when you have fun and…

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Can You Forgive a Man Who Hits You?

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So everyone knows by now about the video of Ray Rice knocking out his then fiancé but now wife on the elevator. For some reason I thought this happened over the weekend but my coworker informed me that his happened months ago and they are already married. When I watched…

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Separate? For what?!

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The worse feeling someone can get is when their significant other asks for some space. The reason why people are emotional about this is because it initially is rejection from their loved ones. Why would someone, who you love, claim they need time away from you? There are a lot…

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Can We Get a Do-Over?

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Ever started dating someone and thought, we moved things too fast and now he is too comfortable? A girlfriend of mine started dating this new guy. She invited him over her house on the first date. They had a good time, no sex but things progressed very quickly since then….

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Revenge Phuck Warrants…

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Anyone who has ever been cheated on knows the thoughts that run through a betrayed person’s head. We think about killing the person, killing the other woman (sometimes man!) or even ourselves. These dangerous thoughts manifest until we are ready to process the next step. When we are in our…

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Date Night Part II: Date the Bestie

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We get so busy that sometimes all we do is text and talk to our girlfriends via gmail chat, phones or a Facebook/ Instagram comments. While this is better than nothing, it isn’t much. Setting up a date with your girlfriend is a must do. Date night with the besties…

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Date Night Part I

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When you have been in a relationship for a long time, things can start to get rather ordinary. It’s really important to keep things in your relationship fresh, so you and your significant other are happy. When life happens and you have jobs, children, church, responsibilities and so on, we…

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Oh Crap He Cheated

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One of the biggest betrayals a man can commit is by sleeping with someone else. What makes it so hurtful is the reasoning behind it. For men, they can sleep with someone and it be nothing and still love you like they did the day before, which for some women…

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Phaedra and Apollo For Better or Nah?

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Anyone who follows the Real Housewives of Atlanta is aware of Apollo Nida’s, Phaedra Parks’s husband, recent charges for bank fraud and identity theft, which he pleaded guilty for. Now he is facing 8 years in prison. Apollo, for anyone hasn’t watched the show, has been in prison before and…

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Hump Day Files: A Thing For Bad Boys?

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The whole Jeremy Meeks “Prison Bae” thing has me thinking. This bad boy has women taking their panties off and checking their savings account balances all for the love of Mr. Meeks. No one can deny he is good looking, even in his family photos, other mug shots and video…

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Whose Tab Is It?

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It is tacky for a man to ask you out and he doesn’t cover the entire bill or he asks to split the bill. However, if you ask him out, should you pay the bill? Here are the dating rules for asking men out. If you ask a man out,…

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Should the Size of the Bling Matter?

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One of our happiest moments is when a man gets down on one knee and asks for our hand in marriage. We get so excited to know this person wants to spend the rest of their lives with us. And to show his devotion, he presents us with a ring….

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