Category Archives: Break-Ups

Butt Dial Horror

So I used to clown one of my sisters about not having her phone locked. I told her, “B, one day someone is either going to go through your phone or god forbid, you call someone by accident.” Should’ve been talking to myself! Because then I stopped locking my phone cause I’m…

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Crush on Employees and Bosses

There are so many fine people out in the world. One thing we cannot ignore is when someone attractive catches our eye. To cross the line or not cross the line with your employee or boss… that truly indeed is the question. I’m a teacher so of course I come…

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Spring Cleaning? Maybe…

So I’m planning on moving before the summer, after my crazy semester and filming, I get to take on a new chaotic task of moving. The great thing about that is I’m a pro at moving considering after my divorce I moved like four times! This last apartment was the…

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Forgive My Boujie Busy

Since I’ve started filming my webseries and working full time, I haven’t had time for much. I would say in the past six-seven months of my life I haven’t been a phone person. The people, who were around my life not quite in my life, have had a problem with…

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How Do We Solve an Issue Like Tara?

I don’t watch the Love and Hip Hop series anymore because of the buffoonery and foolishness they promote. But while I’m scrolling down Instagram, what do I see? One of the characters is pregnant by the dirtiest feet on the planet. Tara Wallace, reality tv star, is pregnant by her…

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High Standards or I respect Myself?

So the feedback I got from my almost date was I should have given neighbor boy a chance. Here’s why I say fuck no. First of all, it’s common courtesy to let someone know well in advance that you aren’t going to make an engagement. Do not wait until the…

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Pack Rat or Hoarder of Feelings

So in purging and getting rid of things from 2015, because yes it’s been a shitty year, not the entire time but major events led it to be pretty shitty so I’m getting a head start. There are things I’ve come across that aren’t mine. To be totally vulnerable for…

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Do We Ever Really Get Over An Ex?

While scrolling through Instagram, I saw a quote that said you never really get over someone you really loved, you learn to live without them and the thought of not being with them. I paused for a second. I thought about my ex-husband and thought, uh.. yeah I’m over that…

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Cuffin Season

It’s the time of year when men start to either get their act together or continue to act a fool. For the single ladies out there, the “hey stranger” text messages are coming in because cuffin season is in effect. How come when it starts to get cold outside that’s…

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When Girlfriends Are Single

There is nothing like the support of your girlfriends when you and your main squeeze split. However, there are certain girlfriends you probably should let them find out on their own, rather than tell them. Others, you might need to make it clear this is not something you want to…

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Sleeping With The EX

This past weekend I had a lot of family at my house. When my cousin and I, with some friends, were talking about exs, my cousin made a valid point. When you break up with someone, sleeping with them puts you in a bad position. How so? You become the…

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Choose Yourself

The strongest power any woman can have is the power to put herself first. From birth we’ve been trained to be helpers because of our motherly instincts. We go on making excuses for people, being flexible in extreme situations and over balancing things for others. Then comes a moment, a moment…

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Fixing Your Life Part II: What We should Learn

What We should Take From Karrueche Tran The authenticity of the Karrueche Tran interview on OWN’s Fix My Life is up for debate. Whether or not she did it to have her voice heard or to trash him, there is a lot we need to take from this young woman….

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Fixing Your Life Part I

A lot of people tuned in to the Fix My Life show on the OWN network by Iyanla Vanzant. This week she interviewed Chris Brown’s ex-girlfriend Karrueche Tran, who has been in the media a lot lately over the recent break-up with the R&B singer. With the drama, social media…

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Breakup Babies and Twitter

So I was, of course, reading celebrity gossip last week and found out the Chris Brown, the R&B singer thug life kid, has a secret baby. Real shocker right? Anyway, his on and off and on and off AGAIN girlfriend, Karrueche Tran, goes on Twitter and declares for the 15037943…

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