Category Archives: Dating Tips

Who’s Your Valentine?

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Valentines Day is one of those days that either gets you excited or makes you depressed. Personally, I love Valentines Day. Why? A reason to eat a lot of chocolate without judgment? I’m there. The reason people hate it is because they might feel like they don’t have someone to…

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To Love or Like?

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Alright, so I took a break from talking about relationships because I wasn’t in one and believe me I’ll soon tell you about my dating madness and ex in another post. As I take a break from grading, I find myself quite perplexed these days. So I’m dating someone new, I…

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Online Dating: Match.com verses Tinder

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Getting your feet wet in the world of dating is the most daunting, worst, uncomfortable and fun thing that will happen before you settle down. One place a lot of people start is to try online dating. My sister, yes you Erika, has suggested I try Tinder, just to get…

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Can You Date Ugly?

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So in the world of dating and dumping in your 30s, I’ve come to the realization that love really goes beyond what we see. When you’re younger, you usually only date men who are appealing to your eyes but as you get older, we over look things…. sometimes. So now…

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Who Should Pay on A Date?

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There is a video about a guy explaining women should offer to pay on the first date or on a date period floating around on Facebook has all the guys are fired up. My thoughts are people see a title on a page and repost without watching the video and…

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Crush on Employees and Bosses

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There are so many fine people out in the world. One thing we cannot ignore is when someone attractive catches our eye. To cross the line or not cross the line with your employee or boss… that truly indeed is the question. I’m a teacher so of course I come…

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He hates Dogs…

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Ok so yours truly went on a date. Oh lord. We grabbed a bite to eat and some drinks. In the mist of conversation, I talked about my little dog because you know, I love him. He asked me if I’m ‘one of those chicks’ who is obsessed with her dog….

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How Do We Solve an Issue Like Tara?

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I don’t watch the Love and Hip Hop series anymore because of the buffoonery and foolishness they promote. But while I’m scrolling down Instagram, what do I see? One of the characters is pregnant by the dirtiest feet on the planet. Tara Wallace, reality tv star, is pregnant by her…

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Dateless Boujie Mack

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Nothing annoys me more than a man who’s just plain stupid. They say you can’t measure intelligence but some men are 6 feet of just plain stupid. I was talking to this guy, recently, and he was asking what I did for a living. I told him and he said…

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What Charlie Sheen’s HIV Status Means For Us

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By now everyone has heard the news of Charlie Sheen announcing he’s HIV positive. He came out and announced it because he was hiding it for a while, four years I believe, and was being blackmailed. He’s not the first celebrity to come out and say he is HIV positive…

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High Standards or I respect Myself?

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So the feedback I got from my almost date was I should have given neighbor boy a chance. Here’s why I say fuck no. First of all, it’s common courtesy to let someone know well in advance that you aren’t going to make an engagement. Do not wait until the…

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Bruh, Your Number was Never Saved!

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After getting out of a long-term relationship, making the decision to date is important but annoying. It’s annoying because you have people in your ear constantly pushing others on you or saying you should “get yourself out there”. Let me tell you, those who are starting over, until you’re ready,…

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Dating is an Audition

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When a single person decides they want to date, they make the decision to either date to find someone to be in a relationship with or to spend time with someone with no strings attached. Dating is the process is where we try someone out to see if we want…

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Pack Rat or Hoarder of Feelings

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So in purging and getting rid of things from 2015, because yes it’s been a shitty year, not the entire time but major events led it to be pretty shitty so I’m getting a head start. There are things I’ve come across that aren’t mine. To be totally vulnerable for…

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Do We Ever Really Get Over An Ex?

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While scrolling through Instagram, I saw a quote that said you never really get over someone you really loved, you learn to live without them and the thought of not being with them. I paused for a second. I thought about my ex-husband and thought, uh.. yeah I’m over that…

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