Category Archives: Dating Tips

Artificial Balls?

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When I think of cosmetic surgery, I think about boob jobs, face lifts, ass injections and so on. Sometimes cosmetic surgery is needed, like when I got my boobs done, I got them reduced. One thing that never comes to mind is if a guy has some kind of surgery. When…

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Cuffin Season

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It’s the time of year when men start to either get their act together or continue to act a fool. For the single ladies out there, the “hey stranger” text messages are coming in because cuffin season is in effect. How come when it starts to get cold outside that’s…

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Proposal With No Ring?

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This question came across my desk a few weeks ago and I had to think clearly before I responded. A lot of women would think if a man proposes to them without a ring, he’s not serious. That isn’t always true. Sometimes he might have the ring and the reasoning…

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He Takes Your Last Name?

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Zoe Saldana, the actress, got married and had twins. What makes her story so interesting, other than she once dated the hot Bradley Cooper, is her cutie husband took her last name! This was not her idea; it was his. Despite her telling him that he might get criticized if…

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Sleeping With The EX

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This past weekend I had a lot of family at my house. When my cousin and I, with some friends, were talking about exs, my cousin made a valid point. When you break up with someone, sleeping with them puts you in a bad position. How so? You become the…

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Too Successful for A Man

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A lot of successful women find themselves checking single on their income taxes, while some other women, who are not as career driven find themselves very married. The running joke of 2015, amongst successful women, is “If I were on welfare, I’d be married.” This joke derives from women thinking…

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Fixing Your Life Part II: What We should Learn

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What We should Take From Karrueche Tran The authenticity of the Karrueche Tran interview on OWN’s Fix My Life is up for debate. Whether or not she did it to have her voice heard or to trash him, there is a lot we need to take from this young woman….

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Fixing Your Life Part I

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A lot of people tuned in to the Fix My Life show on the OWN network by Iyanla Vanzant. This week she interviewed Chris Brown’s ex-girlfriend Karrueche Tran, who has been in the media a lot lately over the recent break-up with the R&B singer. With the drama, social media…

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Dating Your Ex’s Bestie

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So someone inboxed me asking for advice about dating her ex’s bestie. There are two things I can say about this, yes and no. If the breakup is recent, you’re vulnerable and you might have a high chance of regretting it later. If it’s been awhile and what you want…

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Cheating with the Cheater

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So this weekend I had a discussion with a few women that centered the topic of cheating with your ex on his current. If you were ever in a situation when your ex cheated on you with a mistress and he is with the mistress, him trying to mess with…

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How Young Is You BUT How Old is Old?

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A lot of us don’t mind dating outside of our age range. In fact, some of us prefer to date up because we want someone who is mature but sometimes dating someone younger is just what you need. However, there comes a point when you have to ask yourself what…

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Post Breakup Blues

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One of my boujie girls sent me a message ranting about the bad behavior of their ex, post breakup. She didn’t understand how two people, who were once in love, are now enemies. I call this the ‘post breakup blues’. When a couple breaks up and someone is either guilty…

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The Break Up Fault

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I got some mail from one of my B Girls talking about a breakup between her and her main. She was coping and trying to understand the break-up and blamed herself. While reading the email, I looked to see what she had done, granted this is her side of the…

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Hump Day Files: Asking For Permission

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When I hear men complain that they don’t understand why women like bad boys, I look at them like they’re stupid. It’s not about us liking men who commit crimes, cheat on their women or are abusive; most women like assertive men. These so-called “bad boys” are very direct and…

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Do We Cause Abuse on Ourselves?

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In a conversation with one of my sisters yesterday, we were talking about the Ray Rice situation. We were watching the video online and noticed his wife hit him first in the hallway then seemed to elbow him and spit at him in the elevator then all hell broke loose….

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