Category Archives: Dating Tips

Hump Day Files: Break Ups… Who Gets The House?

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Ideally, when we get into relationships, we get into them because we really care about the person we are with. If it were always that perfect, there would be no need for break ups, prenups, or contracts. We have these things in order to protect ourselves in case something should…

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Other Woman Apologizes

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Anyone who has been cheated on is pissed at two people, their main squeeze and the other person their significant other was with. In a love triangle, we can accept (sometimes) an apology from our man but can we accept one from the woman your man cheated with? I got…

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Should You Ever Tell a Man You Were Arrested?

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The best part of dating someone new for the first time is getting to know this person and putting your best foot forward to represent the great person you are. What happens when something goes down and you end up behind bars?  If you have a criminal history, when is…

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Gold Digging Really Isn’t Bad

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Now the title may throw some people off and likely pissed off some men out there but before you judge, read first. The definition of a gold digger is someone who dates someone for the purposes of using them for money and sometimes status, right? While using someone is wrong,…

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Putting it Off… The Dangers

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Hump Day is usually a day when most people honestly don’t get humped. The phrase used to and still does represent the middle of the work week and people are generally tired. What happened if this exhaustion continues? What if you work to the point that you become so drained…

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He Wants to Do WHAT?!

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I overheard a story between two women. One of them was upset because her man wanted to quit his cooperate job for a low paying nonprofit job. He was burned out of doing something he didn’t love and felt driven to do something else. The girlfriend of this woman looked…

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His Family Hates You?

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It’s one thing to deal with your family not liking your significant other, but what about his family not liking you? I find men with a lot of women in their families tend to have relationships where the woman in a man’s life gets the short hand of the stick…

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How Much Do You Love Him?

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Yandy Smith, Reality Star and Business Owner of All Things Girls Love, fiancé has been released from jail. Smith is a power house career wise. She runs her own business, manages different artist in the music industry and is considered one of the most powerful women under 40. Here is…

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Hump Day Files: Does He Bite You?

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A reader sent me a question a few weeks ago and asked about biting in the bedroom. She says she has bite marks from her man because he likes to go into animal mode during sex. While at first I thought, what is the big deal but she then started…

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Freaky Friday: People Don’t Date Anymore?

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I received a question from a reader the other day. She asked me why women don’t date anymore. She said she met this guy and when they first met, they held a good conversation and exchanged numbers. After texting for a few days, he asked her to come over to…

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Advice from the mistress?

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If you were having relationship problems, would you seek out another woman for advice? Better yet, would you seek out your man’s mistress for advice? The short answer to this is no. If your man decided to step out on you, you have to look at yourself and reflect on…

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HUMP DAY FILES: Hump Day Files: Viagra…for WOMEN?!

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So a reader once emailed me and asked me advice about her taking Viagra. At first I am thinking she was nuts (if you are reading this please know that I don’t think so anymore). She explained to me that she just couldn’t keep up with what her man wanted…

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HUMP DAY FILES: What is in the title?

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When a woman starts sleeping with a man, after a while we want to know where we stand. It may not be that we want to marry the man but we want to know, for our own security, if he plans on sticking around. It is hard to just have…

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MACK Mondays: Dating and unemployed

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We always talk about dating a broke man. Many of us, well most of us, wouldn’t think of it. We think a man should have what we have before dating them or even taking them seriously. But what if the tables were turned? What if we didn’t have a job…

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Cool Gifts for Him for Valentine’s Day

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  With Valentine’s Day just two days away, other than getting ready to go out and have fun together, you may want to think about getting your main squeeze a gift. The problem with this is Christmas just came and passed, if you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah or other winter holidays,…

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