Category Archives: #GetMarried

Artificial Balls?

When I think of cosmetic surgery, I think about boob jobs, face lifts, ass injections and so on. Sometimes cosmetic surgery is needed, like when I got my boobs done, I got them reduced. One thing that never comes to mind is if a guy has some kind of surgery. When…

Share Button

He Takes Your Last Name?

Zoe Saldana, the actress, got married and had twins. What makes her story so interesting, other than she once dated the hot Bradley Cooper, is her cutie husband took her last name! This was not her idea; it was his. Despite her telling him that he might get criticized if…

Share Button

Married to Yourself?

So recently in the news it was reported a woman, Yasmin Eleby, married herself because she promised herself by the age of 40 she would get married; 40 was around the corner for her so she did get married… to herself. There are two ways of looking at this… she…

Share Button

After the Wedding Day?

Ok so hear is the deal, many women plan their wedding and not their life after the wedding. In other words they plan for the wedding day and not for the day after. They see themselves as a bride, in that beautiful wedding dress (Say Yes to the Dress), they…

Share Button

We talked… Well Texted…

If you don’t always want to have a text message conversation with a man, keep the texting limited. I hate when I hear women tell me they have been talking to a guy for like a month and they only have had two or three verbal conversations. What the hell is…

Share Button

Real Housewife an Example of Real Life

I watched last night’s episode of… sigh yes, the Real Housewives of Atlanta. It’s my guilty pleasure and yes, I am ashamed to say I watch that crap. 🙂 But the big thing about last nights episode was one of the Housewives, Phaedra Parks, husband is going to prison. I’ve blogged…

Share Button

Fellaz Friday: Qualities In a Mate

Marriage is a sacred bond between a man and woman under God. The overall difficulty in marriage or getting married is what men want and need. Most importantly every man is an individual that is designed uniquely from ideology, physical, emotional, mentally and spiritual. The key components of healthy relationship…

Share Button

Living Together Leads to Divorce?

I was reading an article about people living together and how they benefits marriage. This one doctor, Amie M. Gordon, Ph.D. is a post-doctoral scholar in Social-Personality Psychology at the University of California, Berkeley, made some incredible points about how it can actually lead to divorce. I can’t say I agree with…

Share Button

Have A Life and A Husband Part II

It’s hard for me to recognize sometimes when I’m pushing myself too hard which is why it’s been important for my family, particularly my son to be open about when he needs me. I’ve always made time for his special events, and we usually had a weekly date night where…

Share Button

Fellaz Friday: I’m Looking For… Part II

Probably the most important thing to me about a potential wife is how well we connect. I’m a guy who actually enjoys talking and communicating, so I need to have good chemistry with my woman. Of course we don’t have to like all the same things, but we should have…

Share Button

Have a Life and A Husband Part 1

Now, I just turned 38. I’ve been married for the better part of 19 years, and my son is 14 years old. My first job was babysitting at 13, and I’ve worked pretty much ever since. So for the past 25 years, I have pushed myself well beyond exhaustion, put…

Share Button

Say Less Before Yes

When we are watching what we are saying about ourselves and others, there is even less we need to say when we are responding to someone. When you are husband searching, learn to listen to men. When men say something, they tell the truth about what they want. Do not…

Share Button

Jealous of A Relationship Status? Don’t Be!

I like to read articles about relationships from a psychologist or psychiatrist perspective. There is a lot of research done of how people act in a relationship. This article I read was by a doctor named, Erica B. Slotter, Ph.D. who is a social psychologist and assistant professor at Villanova…

Share Button

Fellaz Friday: I’m Looking For… Part I

I’m a single man with no children who has never been married, but I definitely plan to get married and have children. I don’t believe I’m overly picky, but I am someone who has always been more interested in having relationships with women instead of just flings. That in itself…

Share Button

Get Your Life

It doesn’t matter if you’re married, single, dating, whatever, get your own life and do not become so absorbed in your man. Here is the thing, when you center your entire life around a man, you can end up not having one (Life or man). No one here is dooming…

Share Button