Category Archives: Hump Day Files

Can You Talk To Your Ex

So a friend of mine tagged me in this post on Facebook about two exes talking to each other in a room and sitting across from one another. (Link at the bottom) It was an honest conversation between two young people about what happened to their relationship. With him cheating,…

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Who’s Your Valentine?

Valentines Day is one of those days that either gets you excited or makes you depressed. Personally, I love Valentines Day. Why? A reason to eat a lot of chocolate without judgment? I’m there. The reason people hate it is because they might feel like they don’t have someone to…

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To Love or Like?

Alright, so I took a break from talking about relationships because I wasn’t in one and believe me I’ll soon tell you about my dating madness and ex in another post. As I take a break from grading, I find myself quite perplexed these days. So I’m dating someone new, I…

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Online Dating: Match.com verses Tinder

Getting your feet wet in the world of dating is the most daunting, worst, uncomfortable and fun thing that will happen before you settle down. One place a lot of people start is to try online dating. My sister, yes you Erika, has suggested I try Tinder, just to get…

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Crush on Employees and Bosses

There are so many fine people out in the world. One thing we cannot ignore is when someone attractive catches our eye. To cross the line or not cross the line with your employee or boss… that truly indeed is the question. I’m a teacher so of course I come…

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He hates Dogs…

Ok so yours truly went on a date. Oh lord. We grabbed a bite to eat and some drinks. In the mist of conversation, I talked about my little dog because you know, I love him. He asked me if I’m ‘one of those chicks’ who is obsessed with her dog….

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Dateless Boujie Mack

Nothing annoys me more than a man who’s just plain stupid. They say you can’t measure intelligence but some men are 6 feet of just plain stupid. I was talking to this guy, recently, and he was asking what I did for a living. I told him and he said…

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Cuffin Season

It’s the time of year when men start to either get their act together or continue to act a fool. For the single ladies out there, the “hey stranger” text messages are coming in because cuffin season is in effect. How come when it starts to get cold outside that’s…

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Proposal With No Ring?

This question came across my desk a few weeks ago and I had to think clearly before I responded. A lot of women would think if a man proposes to them without a ring, he’s not serious. That isn’t always true. Sometimes he might have the ring and the reasoning…

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Sleeping With The EX

This past weekend I had a lot of family at my house. When my cousin and I, with some friends, were talking about exs, my cousin made a valid point. When you break up with someone, sleeping with them puts you in a bad position. How so? You become the…

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Be Mine or Each Other

I walked into Walgreens yesterday and almost threw up! There were so many Valentines Day hoopla everywhere that I thought, oh my goodness. Don’t let a single bitter woman come up in here! It was absolutely ridiculous. I propose, for the ladies who are single and even those with someone,…

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Hump Day Files: Asking For Permission

When I hear men complain that they don’t understand why women like bad boys, I look at them like they’re stupid. It’s not about us liking men who commit crimes, cheat on their women or are abusive; most women like assertive men. These so-called “bad boys” are very direct and…

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Is it Cuffin’ Season Already?

For those who don’t know what cuffing season is, it is the time of year, preferably the fall and winter, when people, who normally are single, decide to settle down for a season or two. This concept is so funny because the summer time is when you have fun and…

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Separate? For what?!

The worse feeling someone can get is when their significant other asks for some space. The reason why people are emotional about this is because it initially is rejection from their loved ones. Why would someone, who you love, claim they need time away from you? There are a lot…

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Revenge Phuck Warrants…

Anyone who has ever been cheated on knows the thoughts that run through a betrayed person’s head. We think about killing the person, killing the other woman (sometimes man!) or even ourselves. These dangerous thoughts manifest until we are ready to process the next step. When we are in our…

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