Category Archives: The Ways

“The Ways” are a Boujie Girl Guide of how to survive this crazy world and maintain her boujieness. There are things and people to tolerate, things to accept, and things & people to reject. Maintain your cool and remember somethings need to be the Boujie Way!

Dating is an Audition

When a single person decides they want to date, they make the decision to either date to find someone to be in a relationship with or to spend time with someone with no strings attached. Dating is the process is where we try someone out to see if we want…

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Do We Ever Really Get Over An Ex?

While scrolling through Instagram, I saw a quote that said you never really get over someone you really loved, you learn to live without them and the thought of not being with them. I paused for a second. I thought about my ex-husband and thought, uh.. yeah I’m over that…

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The Boujie and The Bum

The title is only to get your attention. After a meeting yesterday, I ran into a homeless man that I decided to buy dinner for. When he ordered something off the dollar menu, I turned to him and asked, “What do you really want?” He ordered a number 4. I…

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Being Boujie Mack For 5 Years

I’ve had my blog for five years today. It started off as a space to write after my ex-husband and I were separating and that was the most painful experience I ever had. Now five years later, looking back to where it all started, it’s a faded memory. That’s what…

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Choose Yourself

The strongest power any woman can have is the power to put herself first. From birth we’ve been trained to be helpers because of our motherly instincts. We go on making excuses for people, being flexible in extreme situations and over balancing things for others. Then comes a moment, a moment…

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Riot On Education and Communication

I try to keep the blog focused on the fabulousness of being Boujie but sometimes I can not just sit and ignore everything else happening in the world. Right now, we have cities on fire, people dying, police brutality and unfairness towards police. It’s like we’re living in a war…

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Can You Be-Friend Your Enemy Again?

When friendships between women end and they do not speak, it can take up to several years before it is mended. We all fall short when we are arguing with one another but sometimes, after spending time apart, you have a moment to mend things. If that moment comes, will…

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We’re Bullying Each Other and Yes It Has To Stop

Tamar Braxton cried about being bullied on her talk show “The Real” the other day. She discussed how hurtful it was to have another woman make digs at her. While everyone knows there is more to the story, I have to wonder, why do women have to tear each other…

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Slut Shame

So here I am reading blogs, wasting time, gossiping about celebs and who do I run across? Amber Rose! ET Online was interviewing her about herself, tweeting and her next move. She mentioned being slut shamed and I honestly didn’t know what she meant by it. I thought to myself,…

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Well Wishers… Please Shut Up Part II

Nothing pisses me off like someone who just throws shade on the changes in your life. Because you changed, you should be thrown out the cool kids club? If you don’t agree with how someone changed their life, then agree to just focus on yours. Smh! Let the Church Say…

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Well Wishers…Please Shut Up Part I

What I can’t stand with some people is when something in their life changes, such as getting a nicer car, finally owning a house, making more money or getting in a relationship, they suddenly become an expert. If you want people to wish you well and not your downfall, because…

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Just Say No

They say if you want something done, ask busy people. Well most Boujie girls are quite busy and have busy schedules. One thing I suggest to my ladies this year, and I am working on this too, is saying “No” without explaining ourselves or just saying “No” to whatever. Phuck it,…

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Time With The Boujie

One thing I don’t tolerate and will continue not to tolerate for the New Year is insane tardiness. I am notorious for being late, I mean I can barely make it to work on time let alone an engagement. However, I am in constant contact with the person if I…

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Can We Get a Do-Over?

Ever started dating someone and thought, we moved things too fast and now he is too comfortable? A girlfriend of mine started dating this new guy. She invited him over her house on the first date. They had a good time, no sex but things progressed very quickly since then….

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Angry Much?

When someone we are close to does us wrong, we tend to turn away from them. Rightfully so because you were not created to be some kind of doormat. The fact that you stepped away from your loved one, because of they crossed you, is probably best for a little…

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