Category Archives: This is what makes me a Boujie Girl

Texting Someone’s Husband

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So there I was having cocktails with friends and the issue came up with one girl being friends with her friend’s husband. The issue was the married couple were having problems and the wife, her friend, texted her to not reach out to her husband because they were going through…

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Slut Walk or Shame Walk?

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Amber Rose held her first annual “Slut Walk” last week. When I first heard that she was having one, I honestly didn’t care. I thought good for her because she’s been called a slut, whore or whatever how many times and she’s making a stand about it. Then I watched…

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Having Some Me Time

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In the busy world we live in, we sometimes don’t take the time out to just breathe and do something for ourselves. We’re often being woman, mothers, wives, daughters, sisters and so on for someone else that we forget our own needs. It’s so important that we give ourselves a…

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Select Your Proper Shoe Size

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When I was out walking my little dog the other day, I saw this girl step out her apartment tip toeing in high wedges. At first, because it was the evening, I thought she was hurt but then I realized, she either couldn’t walk in the shoes she was wearing…

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Zip the Lips.. A Woman’s Grace

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I’ve learned, when you are going through something, it’s better to quiet yourself down before you speak. People are so quick to offer advice about your house when their own house is on fire. While I know the need to vent, especially for women, is important, clear your mind first….

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And I’m Back with Less Shit

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There comes a time in a Boujie girl’s life when she just needs a break. Life didn’t hand me lemons this summer, it handed me shit. I choose to take a break from blogging because I had to get my shit (you know the one life handed me) together. I…

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Proposal With No Ring?

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This question came across my desk a few weeks ago and I had to think clearly before I responded. A lot of women would think if a man proposes to them without a ring, he’s not serious. That isn’t always true. Sometimes he might have the ring and the reasoning…

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The Boujie and The Bum

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The title is only to get your attention. After a meeting yesterday, I ran into a homeless man that I decided to buy dinner for. When he ordered something off the dollar menu, I turned to him and asked, “What do you really want?” He ordered a number 4. I…

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10 Things Boujie Girls Are Tired Of Seeing

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A lot of people are addicted to social media. I sometimes have to detox because it becomes too much at times. Other times, I’m on there and question my life because of the things I’m seeing. I post up statuses and pictures, like everyone else, like, comment and so on….

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Editorial: Friends Outside Your Race

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I didn’t grow up in a very diverse neighborhood. It was all West Indian, Black and Latin folks. It wasn’t until college when I made some, “white” friends. I’ve always been the open to meeting new people and honestly wasn’t nervous when befriending people outside my race. When you go…

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Slut Shame

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So here I am reading blogs, wasting time, gossiping about celebs and who do I run across? Amber Rose! ET Online was interviewing her about herself, tweeting and her next move. She mentioned being slut shamed and I honestly didn’t know what she meant by it. I thought to myself,…

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Well Wishers… Please Shut Up Part II

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Nothing pisses me off like someone who just throws shade on the changes in your life. Because you changed, you should be thrown out the cool kids club? If you don’t agree with how someone changed their life, then agree to just focus on yours. Smh! Let the Church Say…

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Just Say No

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They say if you want something done, ask busy people. Well most Boujie girls are quite busy and have busy schedules. One thing I suggest to my ladies this year, and I am working on this too, is saying “No” without explaining ourselves or just saying “No” to whatever. Phuck it,…

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Time With The Boujie

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One thing I don’t tolerate and will continue not to tolerate for the New Year is insane tardiness. I am notorious for being late, I mean I can barely make it to work on time let alone an engagement. However, I am in constant contact with the person if I…

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New Year Old You

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I’m sure everyone is sick of the “new year new me” crap that is rolling up and down your Facebook and Instagram feeds. Here is the thing, people look forward to a new start and that’s ok. If you are going to look forward to a new start, you have…

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