Category Archives: This is what makes me a Boujie Girl

Date Night Part II: Date the Bestie

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We get so busy that sometimes all we do is text and talk to our girlfriends via gmail chat, phones or a Facebook/ Instagram comments. While this is better than nothing, it isn’t much. Setting up a date with your girlfriend is a must do. Date night with the besties…

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Would You Switch Places With Beyonce?

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It’s easy to look at a celebrity and think, Man I wish I could live their life. They have money, fame, likely an amazing body and are surrounded with other celebs. But what comes with that fame? What comes with having it all? If we really got everything we wanted,…

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Your Bestie Your New Boss

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Some people have no problem when their friends/co-workers become promoted and they are over them. They are secure within themselves and position to be ok with the fact that their friend is now their new boss. However, there are those of us who think we are ok with it until…

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Not With My Bestie!

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One thing with people, both men and women are guilty of this, is we can be very territorial. Just like little kids, once we deem something is ours, we pout when we see someone else trying to play with our toys, in this case, friend. When you have friends and…

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Hump Day Files: A Thing For Bad Boys?

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The whole Jeremy Meeks “Prison Bae” thing has me thinking. This bad boy has women taking their panties off and checking their savings account balances all for the love of Mr. Meeks. No one can deny he is good looking, even in his family photos, other mug shots and video…

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Don’t Budge On Your Worth

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Don’t lower your values because of fear. Sometimes we are in situations that we don’t particularly like. We may even find ourselves surrounded with negativity. And somehow when everything is happening, we start to blame ourselves as if we could help the world being the shitty world.  Sometimes when you…

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Whose Tab Is It?

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It is tacky for a man to ask you out and he doesn’t cover the entire bill or he asks to split the bill. However, if you ask him out, should you pay the bill? Here are the dating rules for asking men out. If you ask a man out,…

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Should the Size of the Bling Matter?

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One of our happiest moments is when a man gets down on one knee and asks for our hand in marriage. We get so excited to know this person wants to spend the rest of their lives with us. And to show his devotion, he presents us with a ring….

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They Don’t Matter

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If someone doesn’t know you, their negative opinion of you shouldn’t matter. People are quick to judge what they heard from someone else without getting to know the actual person themselves. We all are guilty of it but when they can influence someone else’s opinion about you, it can become dangerous. The…

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HUMP DAY FILES: Need Your Sexy Back?

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We all have our moments when we run past the mirror because we don’t want to see our reflection mocking us. A woman’s sexuality is power. It can get us what we want and it shows a lot of confidence. Still… sometimes we don’t feel sexy. In those moments, we…

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HAPPY 4th BIRTHDAY BOUJIE MACK BLOG!

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I just wanted to say thank you for all the readers, people who share my blog and comment. I have been blogging for four years now and many of you have been very loyal and to the newbies, there is still more to come. Stay with me and again, I…

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Girl Code: Secrets Stay with You

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It’s messed up when two people are not speaking then one or both parties decide spread their former BFF’s business around like the common cold. The most tacky and shameless thing a woman can do is run their mouth about someone just because they are not speaking to each other….

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Low Blows!? No! No!

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We’ve all had arguments with people. Sometime those arguments lead to physical fights, other times words can kill the entire relationship in itself. As women, we know how to cut deep. It isn’t that men don’t but when we argue, there are some things we say that not only cross…

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Nice Girls Don’t Win Either

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There was a time when I wanted to always be the most liked person on this earth. That changed when real life slapped me in the face and said people don’t owe you the same treatment back. I learned somewhere between my early to mid-twenties being nice doesn’t mean anything…

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Potty Mouths, Cigarettes and Beer… Unattractive

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Growing up I remember being told from the Catholic School Nuns that we were supposed to act like ladies at all times. We were to watch our mouths, sit up straight and smile. That was simple enough when you are 12 but as an adult, I find being a lady…

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