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Wives Wednesday: What You Should Do For Him Part II

I’ve been with my husband for six years and married to him for two years.  Although we, of course, work to keep it fresh, at times it can be pretty routine.  Life can become more about completing tasks—cleaning, cooking, working, laundry, etc—than actually living.  The trick, I think, is to…

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Hallmark Marriage

There is no such thing about a perfect marriage. I have spoken to a lot of married couples who have been married for years and years and each of them have said it is no joke. We often think the biggest issue we’ll have is keeping our man from cheating…

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How You Talk To Him

There are three types of women. Ones who are blunt and speak their minds, ones who are more quiet and tend to bite their tongues and there are the ones in between, the firecrackers. There is no way to know which one she is and it depends on her mood….

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Fellaz Friday: How Wives Should Behave

I need my wife to blend in socially.  I know you not going be like everybody, but I do expect you to but at least make an effort. Given my personality, I give everybody a chance.  I won’t deny them a chance to get to know me and visa versa….

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Day 16 Who Are You Talking To?

Sometimes we speak negative things into our lives. You say things like, “I’ll never get married” or “men are shit” and are sad later when shitty men never marry you. It is really important, whenever you want something in your life, that you watch your tongue. Make sure you speak…

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Wives Wednesday: What You Should Do For Him

I’ve been with my husband for six years and married to him for two years.  Although we, of course, work to keep it fresh, at times it can be pretty routine.  Life can become more about completing tasks—cleaning, cooking, working, laundry, etc—than actually living.  The trick, I think, is to…

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Day 14: Face Your Faults

Today, before we go into the next week, I want you ladies to just focus on your own faults. We have to clean up house before we can think about moving someone in. No one is perfect, but at the same time, there are things about ourselves we have to…

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Life Coach Advice Day 13

Discuss the REAL reason behind those “argue over little things” moments! During the course of our relationship, many of us find ourselves disagreeing over whether the toilet seat is up or down, whether the floor should be treated as a hamper, or whether our partner replaced the milk s/he drank…

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Day 10: Fellaz Friday Selfish and Single V.S. A Single Mommy

Most of the time, females my age that are an only child or don’t have children are kinda selfish and their minds don’t comprehend compromise because they are used to getting what they want. Us men will try to have a conversation with them but in the middle of an…

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Day 10: Fellez Friday ‘What I Want in A Wife’

When I think about having a wife, one thing that is important is she has to know how to cook. I can’t afford to eat out every night. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t expect her to cook every night but can a brother save some cash? I am not…

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Day 9: The Good Guy Part II

If he is good physically but doesn’t match you on paper, does that mean he goes in the no pile? The problem I have with dating a man who is not as educated as me is I don’t want anyone at any time to throw in my face that I…

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Ask A Wife: Helen Rhoads

If you don’t pay any attention to the rest of the blog posts I write/ post, listen to this. DO NOT marry a person you are not willing to FIGHT tooth-and-nail, to-the-death for!!  Just don’t do it. Now, before you go saying “but what about” or “but you don’t know about”,…

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Day 7: Gray Area Good Guy

So we are defining what we are looking for in a husband. We have to know what we can and can not live with. Then there is the gray area. Let’s focus on the Good Guy in the gray area. Since we can’t build a man from scratch, we have…

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Day 6: Do You Match Your Mate?

I’ve discussed this on here before about ‘matching your mate’. Sometimes women have high expectations they want in a man but they don’t add up to what they are asking for. For example, you want your man to be tall, have a lot of money and great credit, but you…

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Video Blog 1 for #GETMARRIED

This is the first of many video blogs I’m creating so we can evolve through this journey and challenge. I will post one up each week to check in and review some of the things we discussed throughout the week! See you on the blogs! Feeling fabulous… Boujie Mack var…

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