Hump Day Files: Threesome?

imagesAfter watching a rerun of Sex in the City yesterday, I thought about why men would want another woman in the bedroom. It’s odd for them to want another man there, but two women and a man can either be a fantasy come true or your worst nightmare. No disrespect to swingers or people who get down with the low down but I’m too greedy to share. Still, what happens if your man wants a threesome? Do you give in and let someone into the bedroom or slap him for even suggesting it?!

How they think they look...

How they think they look…

Men are greedy, sneaky visual creatures. Sometimes they think they want someone else in the bedroom just to say they have tried it. Sometimes they are being sneaky and want to hit someone, other than you, with your permission. Other times, honestly they want to try something new. The damage comes when you do it one time and he keeps wanting threesomes all the time! There goes the greedy part when they want, want and want some more until you put a stop to it. If you say yes once, don’t be surprised if he wants it again. At some point, just the two of you won’t be enough.

Pandora’s Box

BTwK063IEAAQtEM_zps15da4034Having a threesome is like opening “Pandora’s Box”. There is so much that can come as a result of it. It does change your relationship a lot. If you like swinging and that is ya’ll thing, by all means eat cake! However, why would you risk opening up your body for someone else? Feelings can change in one night. (Or day if that is your preference. Haha!) Jealousy emerges its ugly head when you are watching your man really fu^%# someone right in front of you. Can you really be ok with the look on his face digging deep inside another woman!? What are her intentions? If she wants seconds without you, are you going to have to smack that ^%#! What if she turns on something inside of you that you didn’t even realize existed until she touched you? What happens then? These are all things to consider before you give the green light to go.

Honestly, to each his own, if you want to try it get your insecurity, if you have any, in check. Have a backbone if you don’t want to do it. And lastly, be prepared when three is a crowd. Remember, once you start, it can become tough to stop.

Munching on my chips and refusing to share…

BOUJIE MACK

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