I’m his what?! His Concubine

As a boujie girl, it is very important to know you deserve to come first. My mom always told me I needed to be number 1. I understand it was not because I was made to be better than anyone, but there are privileges to being number 1 and status. Second choice isn’t and shouldn’t be good enough for any of you.

  • If you are in a relationship with a man who will not commit to you, you are a concubine.
  • If he is married and is promising to leave his wife for you, you are a concubine.
  • If he is only going to your house and you have never been to his house, you are a concubine.
  • If none of his friends or family know who you are, you are a concubine.
  • If you hear from him every once in a while and it’s just for sex or when he hits you up for money, you are a concubine and possibly an ATM.

What is a concubine? a secondary wife, usually of inferior rank. (dictionary.com) or the state of a woman or man in an ongoing, usually matrimonially oriented, relationship with somebody to whom they cannot be married, often because of a difference in social status or economic condition. (Wikipedia) Second choice (Boujie MACK)

As a boujie girl, it is very important to know you deserve to come first. My mom always told me I needed to be number 1. I understand it was not because I was made to be better than anyone, but there are privileges to being number 1 and status. Second choice isn’t and shouldn’t be good enough for any of you.

Boujie girls: If you don’t want to be treated like a whore, tramp, dirty little secret, don’t accept your position as second best or many times second worst. If you are living with a man, have kids with him, and it’s been like 15 years, if you accept that it’s cool, but I think you want more, you deserve more. If he has a wife, know when he get a divorce, you will NOT have access to his money, house, cars just drama and his complaints will not stop. (trust me I’m #teamALIMONY) oh yeah, and he’ll cheat on you too. But, if no one knows you and it’s been like 2 years, baby girl that is a problem!It is not the boujie way to be hidden. Jewels are meant to be shown off. If he’s hiding you, then he’s hiding something from you.

With my nose in the air, I’ll wait for you later.

Boujie MACK

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