Negativity and complaints are a major turn off…

Interesting people are ones who always have something to say. It could be big or small. Whatever they are talking about is just like them, interesting. If you notice your friendship ship is always recruiting for new members, rethink what is going on around you. Is your personality pushing people away? Do you find yourself attracting trash?

People really need to start to believe how powerful words are. What you say, you actually can give life to. How you life your life is a reflection of what comes out of your mouth. If you are constantly talking about the same thing, bills, bad kids, needing money, an ex, this chic and that dude in a negative manner, it gets boring. Who wants to be around that all the time? You don’t want to be the person people want to get away from. You want just the opposite.

What to do? Right your wrongs! People tend to complain when they have a tiff or some unforgiveness going on in their lives. Fix that or let it go. Stop thinking the world revolves around you and realize you make your own bed.

Every boujie girl goes through the self-reflection process, if not they should. There are some things we may not like about our fabulous selves, and others would agree, but change is easy when you decide to do it. Get a journal and list those complaints there. Visit a therapist to help you change your verbiage. Go to church! Do something positive so you can start to be bearable around others.  Negativity is not a good color on anyone…

Cleaning out those skeletons…

BOUJIE MACK

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