Tag Archives: bougie girl

Pretty Is As Pretty Does

There is something about looking nice that can lift your spirits. You get complements, are more productive, your head is held up higher. Everything is all good. Then there are those days when we just don’t care. We don’t wear make-up, throw something on, barely brush our hair then we’re…

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Other Woman Apologizes

Anyone who has been cheated on is pissed at two people, their main squeeze and the other person their significant other was with. In a love triangle, we can accept (sometimes) an apology from our man but can we accept one from the woman your man cheated with? I got…

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Love in January

The winter time is the best time to be in a relationship. It is when couples tend to have more alone time due to the cold weather. January is the most broke and motivating month of the year. People are broke because they have to pay off their holiday shopping…

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Pity Proposal

There comes a time in a relationship when a man and a woman decide it is time to take things a step further and make it not only official but legalize your love. He might get down on one knee and propose. Show up with a ring over dinner. He…

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Dating a Guy Your Mom HATES

The only thing worse than dating someone your friends may not like is dating a guy your own mother doesn’t like. Mothers and daughters for years have bickered back and forth about the type of men mothers want their daughters to marry. When we were younger, we went for the…

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25 Things Boujie Girls Will Never Admit To

   There are not many things we are shameful about because we are proud women who live up to our own standards. However, there does come a point in when you have to admit to these things if to even yourself. 1 Lie about the number of people we have…

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You Are Not a Man Trainer

There comes a moment at the end of a relationship when women feel like they made the man ready for the next woman. Other times women don’t want to let go of a man because they feel like they put a lot of work in him and they do not…

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Hump Day Files: I Can’t Live With Him

There comes a moment in a couple’s life when they decide to take leap of faith and move in together. This is usually the step before marriage or a break up. Either way the journey is something you will never forget. Someone recently asked me on my ASK MACK column…

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Hump Day Files: When to Take the Condom Off

Never! Just kidding. Honestly, after you have been with someone for a while, it is normal to stop using condoms and use other contraceptives when being intimate. The spreading of STDs isn’t because people who are in relationships are having sex with each other, it is because people are having…

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Are You Too Much of a Princess?

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be treated like a queen. In fact, I encourage all women to embrace their inner princesses.  However, there is a time and a place for it. Some women can find themselves so high up on their horses that they lose consciousness of reality….

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Hump Day Files: When Should I Give It Up?

When you are on the prowl to find Mr. Right and had enough of Mr. Wrong, Mr. Lame, Mr. Too Many Kids, Mr. Right Now and worst of all Mr. Ain’t Doing Shit with His Life, you have to set the bar and cut off ties to men you want…

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Hump Day Files: Threesome?

After watching a rerun of Sex in the City yesterday, I thought about why men would want another woman in the bedroom. It’s odd for them to want another man there, but two women and a man can either be a fantasy come true or your worst nightmare. No disrespect…

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What if You Knew Miley Cyrus?

I haven’t said anything about the “wildin’ out” new Miley. I always assumed Disney squeaky clean stars eventually lose it and fall apart, so her ridiculous behavior did not faze me.  But like, what if that was your home girl? How many of us ladies have that one friend that…

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Sticks and Words…

It is very interesting when people say they do not care about what other people say about them. While this is very true and there are people who are just going to talk, there are some people you always want to have their respect. As boujie girls, your reputation is…

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The Gimmy Girl

During lunch with a friend of mine, she was talking about the scary thought of being a “gimmy girl”. We started talking about what a gimmy girl was and I’m not sure that is such a bad thing to be. A gimmy girl is a woman who is not afraid…

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