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Hump Day Files: When Should I Give It Up?

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When you are on the prowl to find Mr. Right and had enough of Mr. Wrong, Mr. Lame, Mr. Too Many Kids, Mr. Right Now and worst of all Mr. Ain’t Doing Shit with His Life, you have to set the bar and cut off ties to men you want…

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Hump Day Files: Threesome?

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After watching a rerun of Sex in the City yesterday, I thought about why men would want another woman in the bedroom. It’s odd for them to want another man there, but two women and a man can either be a fantasy come true or your worst nightmare. No disrespect…

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Could You Date A Celebrity?

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A lot of women look at some of these stars and think how amazing these people look on TV, magazines and such. Some even claim them as their husbands, baby fathers, girl crush, wifey, whatever your preference! But can you imagine dating a celebrity? Sometimes the fame and glamour looks…

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Cheating In Your Relationship?

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In the day of social media, going back to school and working longer and later hours at work, cheating has become more tempting. One has to be realistic as they enter into a relationship and marriage with someone. Some people believe it is inevitable and human nature to sneak out…

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What a Real Nice Guy Is…

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In a world in Instagram and Facebook relationship status changes, people have had a hard time differentiating what a good person does because of our microwave society. Some women believe they have a good man because he is doing what he is supposed to do. NO, NO, NO! A man…

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Single Mom Verse the Single Woman: Who is more datable?

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In a world of dating and dumping, one has to know who her competition is. According to the gentleman that contribute interesting points about the blog, when it comes to dating they are looking for the better suited woman. The question then becomes, as people in their late 20s and…

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Catfish Much?

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There is this new phenomenon about people dating people online for a long time without really “seeing” them. Not the boujie way! When dating online, invest in finding love. The MTV show “Catfish” has proven that people, who have no lives, set up completely different personas to fool people. If…

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Siding with the Enemy: Part II Relationships

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When a couple breaks up, what happens to the friends in the middle!? This is a topic many people struggle with and it continues to be debated. When you are thinking of boujie girl code, look at the bottom line. Remember, at some point everything you do cycles and will…

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How High Are Your Dating Standards?

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Boujie girls always have this issue with high standards with almost everything we do. It can be house buying, trading in cars and many times trading in men. When you are dating, is it as simple as math? Equal to or grater than?

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Are You Dating For No Reason?

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Valentines Day is over and it is on to the rest of the year. Have Boujie girls been dating for no reason and still complaining about the “lack of good men” out there to date? As you start to move forward this year, it is time to think about what…

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7 Things Men Don’t Care About…

Men are visual and simple sexual beings. When they are getting to know a woman, there are a few things he cares about and even lesser things he doesn’t care about. Some of those things are things we over think. When getting to know a man, we want details, for…

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Dating Down the New Trend?

It is not wonder that most boujie girls hold higher positions like lawyers, accountants, office managers, ahem professors J , authors, etc. The truth is most of the men up where we are career and salary wise either can’t stand a boujie girl and run, or the market is smaller. The bigger dating market is the blue-collar man. I’m not saying the blue-collar man is any less then the baller, but they are more available. The pool of men who reach the high standard for boujie girls are getting smaller and smaller every day, so why fight and claw at that small pool of boujie men? Go for the nicer less maintenance guy. He might not have everything you have ladies, but it’s not about things, it’s about how he treats you.

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Do you Know how to Dougie?

So we are getting ready to talk on the phone for the first time before we go on our date. The second he opened his mouth all the cutie stuff he did just went out the window. He kept asking if my profile picture was really me and asked if I could take a picture right now and send it to him. Then he asked if he could have a sexy personal picture then sent me a picture of his dick. All kinds of foolery!

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Sexy Youngins

Men are nicer when they are younger. They seem to be more eager to please when they are young. The question I ask my Boujie circle is what happens to them when they get older? What happens to the 21 year old boy? They are also emotional and can become psycho, (remember Love Me Mackie Boy? Never again!) but younger guys are sweet. When they get their first heartache, they leave the planet and never return. WTF!

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“I think You’re Beautiful and I want to get to know you so give me your number.”

How about just “Hi, you look really nice,” with a smile or bring up something interesting that would strike up a conversation. Very few things can scare a woman, but one thing that can scare us off is a wayyyy too eager man. Just a tip!

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