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To my fellow Boujie girls, as long as you meet your needs, there is no reason to feed your wants. After all you’ve earned it. I do not want to hear about your wants coming before baby food! That is just not the Boujie way! God, family, then you. Try it.
After your needs are taken care of, spend time on a very important person…yourself!
How about just “Hi, you look really nice,” with a smile or bring up something interesting that would strike up a conversation. Very few things can scare a woman, but one thing that can scare us off is a wayyyy too eager man. Just a tip!
I think you need to feel out people first. I always say make in an investment if you are going to find love on the net personally. If people don’t make the time to set up a profile, how serious are they?
If you want to get with a Boujie Girl…know what to not say before you open your mouth.
Sometimes we make up a checklist of who we are and someone else’s actions make us feel, wait. Let me be clear, WE make OURSELVES feel, like we can’t check off what is great about ourselves. You can’t blame someone for making you feel a certain way because they lack, let them lack and complete what they need. You are enough. Check off everything because you really are great and you can’t let someone else’s baggage weigh down your thoughts of yourself.
Then there is the other side of the cookie. Don’t leave because of problems. I hear they follow you anyways! Don’t leave because you can’t tough it out or you hear someone tell you, “you ain’t doing anything out there so come back!” Tough it out. Make it so that going home is not an option. You left for a reason and you need to accomplish what you came to do. Make a new plan for what you have left and deal with it. Be successful with what you had and make it bigger.
Wrap your minds around this, when it’s over, it’s just that over. Get excited about better. If you thought that person was the shit, imagine what’s to come. Usually in the near future you realize they really were not all that they were cracked up to be anyways, but you can now chop it up to life’s experience. Sorry Reggie, you sexy motha….
Do something sexy like at the movies, the nasty picture you took, show it to them calmly like a text message and put your phone away. It’s random and exciting. If you are going to do it, do it smart.
Sale prices sometimes give you difficulty returning, look at your receipt. If you don’t want store credit, know what you want. Sometimes online has more discounts than the stores. Think about it! Don’t wear something and expect the clerk to give you your money back because you couldn’t afford it in the first place. That’s lame anyway!
I am a trend so I don’t need help! I get followed I don’t follow others! Just saying…
Ok, so I went to church on Sunday. I’m running late, irritated, everything that could have possibly gotten in my way, did. Grr! So I eventually make it and the usher rushes me to my seat. During the praise and worship session, the guy singing says, “turn to the next…
Some people thought I completely lost my mind and decided I needed to spend more time with them to figure out why it is that I suddenly “need space”. Others texted me back, “Well Fu%$# you too!” Oh my!
What about when someone changes their relationship status, everyone goes nuts! Imagine if I changed my status! Like I need to see everyone ask questions about why things are complicated? Or I’m single! Inbox full of is it my turn yet or questions! Yes I will stick to my quirks and random messages. However, some people do like to put things on blast and I get soo sucked into it.
“Get to know me before you hate me!” – Samantha Jones from Sex in the City. I’m sure some would say, fake hair, eye lashes, contacts, body, boobs, lips, cheeks or whatever we do to our bodies is a lack of confidence thing but sometimes, at least for me, I just want to look good. I’m a BOUJIE MACK! Of course I want to stick out but not in a bad way.