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Do We Ever Really Get Over An Ex?

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While scrolling through Instagram, I saw a quote that said you never really get over someone you really loved, you learn to live without them and the thought of not being with them. I paused for a second. I thought about my ex-husband and thought, uh.. yeah I’m over that…

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Sleeping With The EX

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This past weekend I had a lot of family at my house. When my cousin and I, with some friends, were talking about exs, my cousin made a valid point. When you break up with someone, sleeping with them puts you in a bad position. How so? You become the…

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Dating Your Ex’s Bestie

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So someone inboxed me asking for advice about dating her ex’s bestie. There are two things I can say about this, yes and no. If the breakup is recent, you’re vulnerable and you might have a high chance of regretting it later. If it’s been awhile and what you want…

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Revenge Phuck Warrants…

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Anyone who has ever been cheated on knows the thoughts that run through a betrayed person’s head. We think about killing the person, killing the other woman (sometimes man!) or even ourselves. These dangerous thoughts manifest until we are ready to process the next step. When we are in our…

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Oh Crap He Cheated

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One of the biggest betrayals a man can commit is by sleeping with someone else. What makes it so hurtful is the reasoning behind it. For men, they can sleep with someone and it be nothing and still love you like they did the day before, which for some women…

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Blasting Your Ex… Again

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I remembered seeing Kim Kardashian blast her ex on her TV show years ago and said blasting your ex is never a good idea. (Blog 2010) I now see in the media and other blogs that Kevin Hart’s ex-wife, Torrei Hart, is blasting her ex and his new girlfriend, calling…

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Other Woman Apologizes

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Anyone who has been cheated on is pissed at two people, their main squeeze and the other person their significant other was with. In a love triangle, we can accept (sometimes) an apology from our man but can we accept one from the woman your man cheated with? I got…

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Will the mistress ever be accepted?

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With so much talk on mistresses having a better hand when it comes to relationships, one has to wonder what life is like after they become, well the main woman. If a man decided to make his mistress honorable by marrying or her claiming her is his woman, does the…

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Hump Day Files: Oh He’s Gay Now?

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Nothing screams bitter than when a woman claims a man is gay after they broke up. It is tacky and useless really. We have discussed this before; do not blast your ex! While driving to my work, I was listening to the radio station and heard Kordell Stewart, former NFL…

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Side Hoes Are NOT Winning!

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As much as you all have a guilty pleasure of watching all these women fight and argue, get married and divorced, dating and breaking up and side bitches getting rings and getting married on TV. (Mainly Vh1, Bravo and other networks that promote foolery) Have no fear in ten years…

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You Are Not a Man Trainer

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There comes a moment at the end of a relationship when women feel like they made the man ready for the next woman. Other times women don’t want to let go of a man because they feel like they put a lot of work in him and they do not…

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Could You Date A Celebrity?

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A lot of women look at some of these stars and think how amazing these people look on TV, magazines and such. Some even claim them as their husbands, baby fathers, girl crush, wifey, whatever your preference! But can you imagine dating a celebrity? Sometimes the fame and glamour looks…

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Cheating In Your Relationship?

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In the day of social media, going back to school and working longer and later hours at work, cheating has become more tempting. One has to be realistic as they enter into a relationship and marriage with someone. Some people believe it is inevitable and human nature to sneak out…

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Is Your Ex in Distress?

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Because boujie girls have a conscience and hearts that beat love, there comes a time when someone from the past lurks up and needs you. What should you do? Chuck them the deuces and say you are not a psychologist or let them back in? Step one gut check. Step…

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Siding with the Enemy: Part I Friendship

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All good things come to an end, especially in friendships. What happens when boujie girls find themselves at odds in a friendship gone bad with a cool person who is now their BFF’s enemy? Boujie Girl problems! To answer the question of girl code, if she is my enemy, she…

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