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Date Night Part II: Date the Bestie

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We get so busy that sometimes all we do is text and talk to our girlfriends via gmail chat, phones or a Facebook/ Instagram comments. While this is better than nothing, it isn’t much. Setting up a date with your girlfriend is a must do. Date night with the besties…

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Girl Code: Secrets Stay with You

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It’s messed up when two people are not speaking then one or both parties decide spread their former BFF’s business around like the common cold. The most tacky and shameless thing a woman can do is run their mouth about someone just because they are not speaking to each other….

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Just Apologize

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There’ s saying sorry and there is apologizing to someone. While both mean the same thing, the delivery of them makes the difference in sincerity. When you have done something bad to someone, especially someone you are close to, apologizing for your actions will determine how that relationship will be…

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Nice Girls Don’t Win Either

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There was a time when I wanted to always be the most liked person on this earth. That changed when real life slapped me in the face and said people don’t owe you the same treatment back. I learned somewhere between my early to mid-twenties being nice doesn’t mean anything…

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Putting it Off… The Dangers

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Hump Day is usually a day when most people honestly don’t get humped. The phrase used to and still does represent the middle of the work week and people are generally tired. What happened if this exhaustion continues? What if you work to the point that you become so drained…

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Love in January

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The winter time is the best time to be in a relationship. It is when couples tend to have more alone time due to the cold weather. January is the most broke and motivating month of the year. People are broke because they have to pay off their holiday shopping…

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Hump Day Files: When to Take the Condom Off

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Never! Just kidding. Honestly, after you have been with someone for a while, it is normal to stop using condoms and use other contraceptives when being intimate. The spreading of STDs isn’t because people who are in relationships are having sex with each other, it is because people are having…

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We Ain’t Friends No Mo

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When people enter their adult life, there are a few things they should notice changing. Other than the load of opportunity, responsibility, and weight change, your surroundings change as well. The people you once considered your best friends aren’t. It isn’t that you are enemies; you just are not as…

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Could You Date A Celebrity?

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A lot of women look at some of these stars and think how amazing these people look on TV, magazines and such. Some even claim them as their husbands, baby fathers, girl crush, wifey, whatever your preference! But can you imagine dating a celebrity? Sometimes the fame and glamour looks…

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The Mean Girls…

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Being a mean girl should be an immature phase some women go through in their adolescent years.  Unfortunately, this phase can extend from the teeny bopper years to elderly for some. Some bullies may actually be aware that they are mean and bitchy, but others carry on with a narcissistic…

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Is Your Ex in Distress?

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Because boujie girls have a conscience and hearts that beat love, there comes a time when someone from the past lurks up and needs you. What should you do? Chuck them the deuces and say you are not a psychologist or let them back in? Step one gut check. Step…

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Are YOU the selfish Friend?

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One of the many conflicts women tend to have are other women being selfish. Before any of you start pointing fingers and naming names, step back and look at yourselves. Are you the needy one who never asks how someone else is doing? Or perhaps you ask but don’t listen…

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Siding with the Enemy: Part II Relationships

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When a couple breaks up, what happens to the friends in the middle!? This is a topic many people struggle with and it continues to be debated. When you are thinking of boujie girl code, look at the bottom line. Remember, at some point everything you do cycles and will…

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Are You Dating For No Reason?

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Valentines Day is over and it is on to the rest of the year. Have Boujie girls been dating for no reason and still complaining about the “lack of good men” out there to date? As you start to move forward this year, it is time to think about what…

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I-Want-Her-Life- Syndrome

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There is a syndrome that has not been diagnosed. The “I-want-her-life- drom”. It comes from a mixture of low self-esteem and a tad of envy. Jealousy is not apart of it because jealously comes from hate. Envy is a little different. Envy is an emotion that comes from self-pity.

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