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Siding with the Enemy: Part I Friendship

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All good things come to an end, especially in friendships. What happens when boujie girls find themselves at odds in a friendship gone bad with a cool person who is now their BFF’s enemy? Boujie Girl problems! To answer the question of girl code, if she is my enemy, she…

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Siding with the Enemy: Part II Relationships

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When a couple breaks up, what happens to the friends in the middle!? This is a topic many people struggle with and it continues to be debated. When you are thinking of boujie girl code, look at the bottom line. Remember, at some point everything you do cycles and will…

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Are You Dating For No Reason?

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Valentines Day is over and it is on to the rest of the year. Have Boujie girls been dating for no reason and still complaining about the “lack of good men” out there to date? As you start to move forward this year, it is time to think about what…

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It’s Valentines Day… Should You Give it Up?

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It is good to have sex for no reason or without purpose. Just because it is Valentines Day doesn’t mean you have to call up whomever and offer them the luxury and petting your kitty. After all, today is just one day, after tomorrow, how are you going to feel…

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Bitter On Valentines Day? Don’t Be!

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Before anyone goes and slits their wrist today, it is important to remember what Valentines Day really is about. It is not just a day for couples, it is a day to send extra love to someone you care about.

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Why it’s Important to Be a Reliable Boujie Girl

Your name and reputation is very important. What others think of you in a petty way may not be significant, but how they think of you in a professional matter is. Most women are quick to run their mouths and claim how important their time is and they have a…

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Another Facebook Rant

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There is no such thing as “It is complicated” in a relationship. Either you are together or you are not. If there is a gray area, then you are not. Do not leave yourself in an area where the other person can have the choice to choose someone else over…

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Chris Brown and Rihanna…and Karrueche Tran???

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Are you the woman that the man is using until his main squeeze comes back? What many women do not pay attention to is when they get with a guy, who clearly is still hung up on his ex, is the waiting period before you are thrown out of his…

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I-Want-Her-Life- Syndrome

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There is a syndrome that has not been diagnosed. The “I-want-her-life- drom”. It comes from a mixture of low self-esteem and a tad of envy. Jealousy is not apart of it because jealously comes from hate. Envy is a little different. Envy is an emotion that comes from self-pity.

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Are We Too Old to Make New Friends?

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Some of us are stuck in the same friendship ruts. We have the same friends we have had since we were in diapers. It is not that we haven’t met others, we have but our “real” friends are people who have know us 10-20-30 years plus! What does that circle…

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Negativity and complaints are a major turn off…

Interesting people are ones who always have something to say. It could be big or small. Whatever they are talking about is just like them, interesting. If you notice your friendship ship is always recruiting for new members, rethink what is going on around you. Is your personality pushing people…

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What makes her a “Basic Bitch”?

What does the term “basic bitch” mean to you? Does it mean a regular woman, driving a regular car, with a regular job, and just plain boring? Perhaps for other women it means a woman who is not of importance? A woman that means nothing to the man she is…

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7 Things Men Don’t Care About…

Men are visual and simple sexual beings. When they are getting to know a woman, there are a few things he cares about and even lesser things he doesn’t care about. Some of those things are things we over think. When getting to know a man, we want details, for…

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Moving In… Does it Prevent Marriage or Put You On a Waiting List?

For many boujie girls, moving in with the right guy is a major step. They have passed our checklist, unless you have been dipping in un-boujie like conduct such as moving in someone with no job or aspirations… :/ If in five years you are asking yourself if he is…

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Befriending your Friend’s Enemy?

Not everyone is mature. No matter how old people are, they have some childish ways that are stuck with them. When you are dealing with friends, particularly close ones, you are dealing with people who may not be fans of them. Tread lightly with how you handle people who are…

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