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There comes a time when you have to choose between Peace and Wants. Sometimes peace leaves you alone but happy. When we are in relationships with people, be it romantic, friendship or families, we come to a crossroad. When we reach these crossroads we make a decision on whether or not to continue with this other person.
After you realize that your other half is trying to make a whole with someone else, there are things we need to immediately understand. It is important to be calm at all times. Go and let your rage out somewhere else before you deal with him, because if you do it while he’s there, i.e. confrontation violent style, things will only go left. Let the shock settle when you know for sure. Do NOT go accusing anyone of anything until you are sure. Period.
The first rule you need to comprehend and I mean you need to get this. SHE DOES NOT OWE YOU ANYTHING. Contacting a woman that you think you man is doing God knows what with, will not guarantee you anything. You should be taking it up with him. If he is lying and you don’t believe anything he has to say, why are you with him? Don’t spend your life stressing over a liar. It’s a hard truth but you know better.
If you are “messing” with him and you didn’t know. Again, you can go two different ways. You can let her know you didn’t know and have a conversation that big girls can have. The other option is to fry his ass. Is this who you want to be with? If he did this to her, can he do it to you? Technically he already did.