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Can You Talk To Your Ex

So a friend of mine tagged me in this post on Facebook about two exes talking to each other in a room and sitting across from one another. (Link at the bottom) It was an honest conversation between two young people about what happened to their relationship. With him cheating,…

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Who’s Your Valentine?

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Valentines Day is one of those days that either gets you excited or makes you depressed. Personally, I love Valentines Day. Why? A reason to eat a lot of chocolate without judgment? I’m there. The reason people hate it is because they might feel like they don’t have someone to…

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Can You Date Ugly?

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So in the world of dating and dumping in your 30s, I’ve come to the realization that love really goes beyond what we see. When you’re younger, you usually only date men who are appealing to your eyes but as you get older, we over look things…. sometimes. So now…

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Who Should Pay on A Date?

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There is a video about a guy explaining women should offer to pay on the first date or on a date period floating around on Facebook has all the guys are fired up. My thoughts are people see a title on a page and repost without watching the video and…

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Pack Rat or Hoarder of Feelings

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So in purging and getting rid of things from 2015, because yes it’s been a shitty year, not the entire time but major events led it to be pretty shitty so I’m getting a head start. There are things I’ve come across that aren’t mine. To be totally vulnerable for…

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Texting Someone’s Husband

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So there I was having cocktails with friends and the issue came up with one girl being friends with her friend’s husband. The issue was the married couple were having problems and the wife, her friend, texted her to not reach out to her husband because they were going through…

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Zip the Lips.. A Woman’s Grace

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I’ve learned, when you are going through something, it’s better to quiet yourself down before you speak. People are so quick to offer advice about your house when their own house is on fire. While I know the need to vent, especially for women, is important, clear your mind first….

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Do We Ever Really Get Over An Ex?

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While scrolling through Instagram, I saw a quote that said you never really get over someone you really loved, you learn to live without them and the thought of not being with them. I paused for a second. I thought about my ex-husband and thought, uh.. yeah I’m over that…

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Artificial Balls?

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When I think of cosmetic surgery, I think about boob jobs, face lifts, ass injections and so on. Sometimes cosmetic surgery is needed, like when I got my boobs done, I got them reduced. One thing that never comes to mind is if a guy has some kind of surgery. When…

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Cuffin Season

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It’s the time of year when men start to either get their act together or continue to act a fool. For the single ladies out there, the “hey stranger” text messages are coming in because cuffin season is in effect. How come when it starts to get cold outside that’s…

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When Girlfriends Are Single

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There is nothing like the support of your girlfriends when you and your main squeeze split. However, there are certain girlfriends you probably should let them find out on their own, rather than tell them. Others, you might need to make it clear this is not something you want to…

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Can You Be-Friend Your Enemy Again?

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When friendships between women end and they do not speak, it can take up to several years before it is mended. We all fall short when we are arguing with one another but sometimes, after spending time apart, you have a moment to mend things. If that moment comes, will…

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Editorial: Friends Outside Your Race

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I didn’t grow up in a very diverse neighborhood. It was all West Indian, Black and Latin folks. It wasn’t until college when I made some, “white” friends. I’ve always been the open to meeting new people and honestly wasn’t nervous when befriending people outside my race. When you go…

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Be Mine or Each Other

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I walked into Walgreens yesterday and almost threw up! There were so many Valentines Day hoopla everywhere that I thought, oh my goodness. Don’t let a single bitter woman come up in here! It was absolutely ridiculous. I propose, for the ladies who are single and even those with someone,…

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Do Women Really Hate Each Other?

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A friend of mine swears up and down that women hate each other. While there are moments when we pull out the claws, there is still a lot of love between us. The biggest trouble between women is fear. I’m not saying it is the only problem but it is…

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