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When someone borrows something of yours and does not return it call them out. Borrowing means you plan to give it back. You should not have to slyly remind them that it belongs to you. It is yours, go over her house and grab it out of the closet or laundry basket! WTF is this? You are not a charity! NEXT!!!
I read an article about various things that make someone bougie and I am thinking whoever wrote this article really doesn’t understand what a REAL meaning of bougie is. First of all, it comes from the root word bourgeoisie. People have shortened the term and even changed the spelling (like I did) but it still boils down to what the actual definition is.
If you are serious and choose to take off the condom, make sure you and your partner are monogamous. Know what the possibilities are of pregnancies and what you want in both of your futures. Get tested together so you know where each other stand. Be safe…sheesh I know if feels good but pills and shots don’t feel good either. Neither do crying babies!
It is not wonder that most boujie girls hold higher positions like lawyers, accountants, office managers, ahem professors J , authors, etc. The truth is most of the men up where we are career and salary wise either can’t stand a boujie girl and run, or the market is smaller. The bigger dating market is the blue-collar man. I’m not saying the blue-collar man is any less then the baller, but they are more available. The pool of men who reach the high standard for boujie girls are getting smaller and smaller every day, so why fight and claw at that small pool of boujie men? Go for the nicer less maintenance guy. He might not have everything you have ladies, but it’s not about things, it’s about how he treats you.
Ladies, please control yourself and your mouths. I can’t stress this enough, fighting doesn’t change the situation nor does arguing back. Sometimes it really is best to ignore someone. It doesn’t make you weak it makes you mature. Falling into that bullshit is fucking lame and I need some of you to do better.
Nothing hurts anyone more than money out of their pockets. You have to pay for your actions and why not make it worth it. Boujie girls don’t need to fight anyone. I have learned from past experiences, once someone gets you to that point, it is time to “stop fucking with them”. Period. Jail isn’t worth it nor is the throwing down. Not to mention grown women fighting is sooo tacky. I think Evelyn and Chrissy from love and hip-hop need to get some help quickly.
I’ve had friends for over 10-20 years. If we are beefing and I see one of them in tears because of the frustration taken out from our argument or tiff, I don’t think I could ever tell them to take their crocodile tears to a shop, (or whatever she said.) That’s my friend who is likely jealous of where I am and she is looking at herself, which is why she could be acting up. Girlfriends go through that. Hello!!!
I am all about “sisterhood” and sistas doing it for themselves but I’ve seen a lot of crap in 2011 that do not follow this boujie girl’s laws. Some of you “sistas” need to get some help and change your nasty attitudes and ways or you are not going to…
When you are as fabulous as I am it is very common to gain fans. I don’t use fans in a negative light at all. I’m a fan of a lot of people who are not famous. The problem is when you are a likeable person, people tend to want…
Real boujie girls have haters. We do. There are always going to be someone saying something or claiming we did something or declaring we are boujie. It comes with the territory. When you are a BOSS, expect your subordinates to have complaints…especially when they are fired. Keep your head up and let who you really are speak for herself.
I wish people would stop counting other women’s money. A woman is allowed to buy whatever she wants to buy. It’s her business. That goes from cars, bags, shoes, whatever! I will stop at this. Ladies, you may have campaign taste, but if you only have beer money, leave it alone. However, if you have the dollaz..make it rain girls!!
Here are the rules, Boujie Girls do not have to ask for anything. Don’t ask him SHIT. If he doesn’t know to get you at least a card, then you should know what to do with him. Some of you are expecting extravagant gifts and it has only been 3 months. If he didn’t start with extravagant gifts then don’t hold your breath. If it has been six years and you never got anything but a card…again- DON’T HOLD YOUR BREATH!
I’m sorry, 30-40 plus year old rappers need not apply. “Starting my own record label and I’m about to blow,” also, please do not apply. Short man syndrome, complaining that all women want is money and tall dudes with big dicks, DO NOT APPLY! Who wouldn’t want a nice tall man, with a big dick and money?! PLEASE!
15 Things you should learn about a Boujie Girl…
Now, before I get a call from my ex’s lawyer claiming I’m ruining his name or some bullshit, let me be clear. My ex was very polite, he opened our car doors for me (except that time when he tried to throw me out the car…but it’s all good.) held the door open for me to walk through and was pretty chivalrous for the most part but he never held out my chair. I only saw that in movies.