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You piece the freaking puzzle. Boujie Rule! No more repeat outfits unless they are at least two weeks apart!!!!!
Real Boujie girls don’t have to be nasty to get respect. FYI…respect is earned it is not something you pick up on your way out of Wal-mart.
To my fellow Boujie girls, as long as you meet your needs, there is no reason to feed your wants. After all you’ve earned it. I do not want to hear about your wants coming before baby food! That is just not the Boujie way! God, family, then you. Try it.
After your needs are taken care of, spend time on a very important person…yourself!
How about just “Hi, you look really nice,” with a smile or bring up something interesting that would strike up a conversation. Very few things can scare a woman, but one thing that can scare us off is a wayyyy too eager man. Just a tip!
I think you need to feel out people first. I always say make in an investment if you are going to find love on the net personally. If people don’t make the time to set up a profile, how serious are they?
If you want to get with a Boujie Girl…know what to not say before you open your mouth.
Wrap your minds around this, when it’s over, it’s just that over. Get excited about better. If you thought that person was the shit, imagine what’s to come. Usually in the near future you realize they really were not all that they were cracked up to be anyways, but you can now chop it up to life’s experience. Sorry Reggie, you sexy motha….
Do something sexy like at the movies, the nasty picture you took, show it to them calmly like a text message and put your phone away. It’s random and exciting. If you are going to do it, do it smart.
I thought it was sweet until I find out I was deleted of his Facebook?! Oh what the hell. Nonsense like that doesn’t move me. I think it’s safe to say, take your time getting to know people. I’m confident within 30-90 days their true colors surface and the representative you met will fade. Make better decisions when meeting people! UH!
Today, when I am dealing with people, I learned to get out of the habit of reacting. I used to argue, shout, even slap to get what I felt I deserved, but now I earn it. If I’m being treated unfairly, before I react, I retreat, rethink then handle. I am out of the businesses of dealing with people who don’t matter, used to matter or don’t deserve my respect. I am in the business of becoming who I am supposed to be, a writer / college professor soon to be PhD candidate. If I’m called Boujie for being who I am, then I will coin it and move on.
Sale prices sometimes give you difficulty returning, look at your receipt. If you don’t want store credit, know what you want. Sometimes online has more discounts than the stores. Think about it! Don’t wear something and expect the clerk to give you your money back because you couldn’t afford it in the first place. That’s lame anyway!
What about when someone changes their relationship status, everyone goes nuts! Imagine if I changed my status! Like I need to see everyone ask questions about why things are complicated? Or I’m single! Inbox full of is it my turn yet or questions! Yes I will stick to my quirks and random messages. However, some people do like to put things on blast and I get soo sucked into it.
And why do some people have fan pages? I know mine is to promote my blog and other writing but become a fan of you because you are just that wonderful? No I do not think so pal!
Before he comes back, I push my seat back a little, yank my shirt down more to show off the girls and even dabble a little glitter lotion on the girls to make them shine before he comes back.