Tag Archives: Love

Don’t Laugh at Her

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Gossip is a scary thing. Over the weekend everyone knew or should have figured out Kevin Hart cheated on his second wife and people had time to laugh at her. But wtf is so damn funny? SO the gag is Hart’s second wife, Eniko Parrish, was allegedly his mistress when…

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Can You Talk To Your Ex

So a friend of mine tagged me in this post on Facebook about two exes talking to each other in a room and sitting across from one another. (Link at the bottom) It was an honest conversation between two young people about what happened to their relationship. With him cheating,…

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Who’s Your Valentine?

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Valentines Day is one of those days that either gets you excited or makes you depressed. Personally, I love Valentines Day. Why? A reason to eat a lot of chocolate without judgment? I’m there. The reason people hate it is because they might feel like they don’t have someone to…

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To Love or Like?

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Alright, so I took a break from talking about relationships because I wasn’t in one and believe me I’ll soon tell you about my dating madness and ex in another post. As I take a break from grading, I find myself quite perplexed these days. So I’m dating someone new, I…

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Who Should Pay on A Date?

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There is a video about a guy explaining women should offer to pay on the first date or on a date period floating around on Facebook has all the guys are fired up. My thoughts are people see a title on a page and repost without watching the video and…

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New Year Resolutions… Finish Strong

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If anyone ever asks me what’s my favorite holiday, I say New Years. It started when I was a little girl, about 8 or something. My mom and I were going through some hard times and she told me I could stay up with her and watch the ball drop….

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High Standards or I respect Myself?

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So the feedback I got from my almost date was I should have given neighbor boy a chance. Here’s why I say fuck no. First of all, it’s common courtesy to let someone know well in advance that you aren’t going to make an engagement. Do not wait until the…

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Pack Rat or Hoarder of Feelings

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So in purging and getting rid of things from 2015, because yes it’s been a shitty year, not the entire time but major events led it to be pretty shitty so I’m getting a head start. There are things I’ve come across that aren’t mine. To be totally vulnerable for…

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Texting Someone’s Husband

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So there I was having cocktails with friends and the issue came up with one girl being friends with her friend’s husband. The issue was the married couple were having problems and the wife, her friend, texted her to not reach out to her husband because they were going through…

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Do We Ever Really Get Over An Ex?

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While scrolling through Instagram, I saw a quote that said you never really get over someone you really loved, you learn to live without them and the thought of not being with them. I paused for a second. I thought about my ex-husband and thought, uh.. yeah I’m over that…

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And I’m Back with Less Shit

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There comes a time in a Boujie girl’s life when she just needs a break. Life didn’t hand me lemons this summer, it handed me shit. I choose to take a break from blogging because I had to get my shit (you know the one life handed me) together. I…

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God Bless the Taras in the World

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I know I keep saying I’m going to stop watching trashy reality TV and focus on positive things but I’m addicted! I was right there watching Love and Hip Hop NY, again, SMH at everything I saw. BUT when I was watching this episode, I saw something that literally took…

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Post Breakup Blues

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One of my boujie girls sent me a message ranting about the bad behavior of their ex, post breakup. She didn’t understand how two people, who were once in love, are now enemies. I call this the ‘post breakup blues’. When a couple breaks up and someone is either guilty…

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Fellaz Friday: I’m Looking For… Part I

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I’m a single man with no children who has never been married, but I definitely plan to get married and have children. I don’t believe I’m overly picky, but I am someone who has always been more interested in having relationships with women instead of just flings. That in itself…

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Wives Wednesday: What You Should Do For Him Part II

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I’ve been with my husband for six years and married to him for two years.  Although we, of course, work to keep it fresh, at times it can be pretty routine.  Life can become more about completing tasks—cleaning, cooking, working, laundry, etc—than actually living.  The trick, I think, is to…

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