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Half the time we get lemons anyways so why not meet someone nice and look past “what you are used to” and give them a chance. Seriously! Usually those are the guys who last the longest. Because they are aware of their faults and they are likely aware of yours and accept you, they should finish first.
I’ve been with male friends of mine until really late, never the entire night obviously because I’m married but it can happen. However, I’m a woman who knows her boundaries and wouldn’t put myself in a specific situation that I couldn’t get out of. Is it safe to say that this other woman did the same?
After being in a relationship with my husband for 7 years, I know when he’s lying. It’s not a look in the face or how he says it, I feel it. Something in his spirit tells me when he’s lying. Then I get that invisible slap in the face. Why lie to me? It’s Mack.
Another woman meets a nice guy. He didn’t show any qualities of a loser or crazy-stalker-who-might-kill-you-in-the-middle-of-the-night signs. After about a month, he starts talking about having no place to live and wants to “crash” at her place until he gets himself together.
We always want what we can’t have; it’s human nature of course. But put yourself in her shoes when you make these decisions because, eventually, you will get that same title and you better hope someone like yourself doesn’t come around and do what you did. Pain is a given.
There comes a time when you have to choose between Peace and Wants. Sometimes peace leaves you alone but happy. When we are in relationships with people, be it romantic, friendship or families, we come to a crossroad. When we reach these crossroads we make a decision on whether or not to continue with this other person.
* Either You Love Me Or You Don’t -Ask A Wife
* Are We In Love Yet…Crazies in the World – Loser Look Out
* I Only Love You Sometimes – Epic Fails 2010
After you realize that your other half is trying to make a whole with someone else, there are things we need to immediately understand. It is important to be calm at all times. Go and let your rage out somewhere else before you deal with him, because if you do it while he’s there, i.e. confrontation violent style, things will only go left. Let the shock settle when you know for sure. Do NOT go accusing anyone of anything until you are sure. Period.
The first rule you need to comprehend and I mean you need to get this. SHE DOES NOT OWE YOU ANYTHING. Contacting a woman that you think you man is doing God knows what with, will not guarantee you anything. You should be taking it up with him. If he is lying and you don’t believe anything he has to say, why are you with him? Don’t spend your life stressing over a liar. It’s a hard truth but you know better.
If you are “messing” with him and you didn’t know. Again, you can go two different ways. You can let her know you didn’t know and have a conversation that big girls can have. The other option is to fry his ass. Is this who you want to be with? If he did this to her, can he do it to you? Technically he already did.