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Hump Day Files: Asking For Permission

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When I hear men complain that they don’t understand why women like bad boys, I look at them like they’re stupid. It’s not about us liking men who commit crimes, cheat on their women or are abusive; most women like assertive men. These so-called “bad boys” are very direct and…

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Time With The Boujie

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One thing I don’t tolerate and will continue not to tolerate for the New Year is insane tardiness. I am notorious for being late, I mean I can barely make it to work on time let alone an engagement. However, I am in constant contact with the person if I…

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We talked… Well Texted…

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If you don’t always want to have a text message conversation with a man, keep the texting limited. I hate when I hear women tell me they have been talking to a guy for like a month and they only have had two or three verbal conversations. What the hell is…

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Fellaz Friday: Qualities In a Mate

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Marriage is a sacred bond between a man and woman under God. The overall difficulty in marriage or getting married is what men want and need. Most importantly every man is an individual that is designed uniquely from ideology, physical, emotional, mentally and spiritual. The key components of healthy relationship…

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Living Together Leads to Divorce?

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I was reading an article about people living together and how they benefits marriage. This one doctor, Amie M. Gordon, Ph.D. is a post-doctoral scholar in Social-Personality Psychology at the University of California, Berkeley, made some incredible points about how it can actually lead to divorce. I can’t say I agree with…

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Fellaz Friday: I’m Looking For… Part II

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Probably the most important thing to me about a potential wife is how well we connect. I’m a guy who actually enjoys talking and communicating, so I need to have good chemistry with my woman. Of course we don’t have to like all the same things, but we should have…

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Say Less Before Yes

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When we are watching what we are saying about ourselves and others, there is even less we need to say when we are responding to someone. When you are husband searching, learn to listen to men. When men say something, they tell the truth about what they want. Do not…

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Fellaz Friday: I’m Looking For… Part I

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I’m a single man with no children who has never been married, but I definitely plan to get married and have children. I don’t believe I’m overly picky, but I am someone who has always been more interested in having relationships with women instead of just flings. That in itself…

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Get Your Life

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It doesn’t matter if you’re married, single, dating, whatever, get your own life and do not become so absorbed in your man. Here is the thing, when you center your entire life around a man, you can end up not having one (Life or man). No one here is dooming…

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Fellaz Friday: How Wives Should Behave

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I need my wife to blend in socially.  I know you not going be like everybody, but I do expect you to but at least make an effort. Given my personality, I give everybody a chance.  I won’t deny them a chance to get to know me and visa versa….

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Life Coach Advice Day 13

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Discuss the REAL reason behind those “argue over little things” moments! During the course of our relationship, many of us find ourselves disagreeing over whether the toilet seat is up or down, whether the floor should be treated as a hamper, or whether our partner replaced the milk s/he drank…

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Day 10: Fellaz Friday Selfish and Single V.S. A Single Mommy

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Most of the time, females my age that are an only child or don’t have children are kinda selfish and their minds don’t comprehend compromise because they are used to getting what they want. Us men will try to have a conversation with them but in the middle of an…

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Day 9: The Good Guy Part II

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If he is good physically but doesn’t match you on paper, does that mean he goes in the no pile? The problem I have with dating a man who is not as educated as me is I don’t want anyone at any time to throw in my face that I…

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Ask A Wife: Helen Rhoads

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If you don’t pay any attention to the rest of the blog posts I write/ post, listen to this. DO NOT marry a person you are not willing to FIGHT tooth-and-nail, to-the-death for!!  Just don’t do it. Now, before you go saying “but what about” or “but you don’t know about”,…

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Day 6: Do You Match Your Mate?

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I’ve discussed this on here before about ‘matching your mate’. Sometimes women have high expectations they want in a man but they don’t add up to what they are asking for. For example, you want your man to be tall, have a lot of money and great credit, but you…

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