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Convenience or Temporary Shacking

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One of the few things about Steve Harvey’s book, “Think Like a Man” that made sense was how to be aware of a man’s intentions. When you are deciding to move in with your significant other, be clear about why both of you want to shack up. In this economy,…

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Cheating In Your Relationship?

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In the day of social media, going back to school and working longer and later hours at work, cheating has become more tempting. One has to be realistic as they enter into a relationship and marriage with someone. Some people believe it is inevitable and human nature to sneak out…

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Why Your Boo Shouldn’t Borrow Money

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Every now and then you might be short some cash and your significant other may be short a few bucks. Those are times when it is fine to give them the extra they need. When it comes to big time money, such as paying for a car note or help…

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Is Your Ex in Distress?

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Because boujie girls have a conscience and hearts that beat love, there comes a time when someone from the past lurks up and needs you. What should you do? Chuck them the deuces and say you are not a psychologist or let them back in? Step one gut check. Step…

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Why Holding A Man Down Makes You Bitter

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In today’s economy, holding a job is getting harder and harder. It isn’t because people do not want to work, but it is because companies are going out of business and downsizing. How many people have lost their jobs recently? Thank God every day you have one. When it comes…

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Siding with the Enemy: Part I Friendship

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All good things come to an end, especially in friendships. What happens when boujie girls find themselves at odds in a friendship gone bad with a cool person who is now their BFF’s enemy? Boujie Girl problems! To answer the question of girl code, if she is my enemy, she…

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Siding with the Enemy: Part II Relationships

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When a couple breaks up, what happens to the friends in the middle!? This is a topic many people struggle with and it continues to be debated. When you are thinking of boujie girl code, look at the bottom line. Remember, at some point everything you do cycles and will…

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How High Are Your Dating Standards?

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Boujie girls always have this issue with high standards with almost everything we do. It can be house buying, trading in cars and many times trading in men. When you are dating, is it as simple as math? Equal to or grater than?

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Are You Dating For No Reason?

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Valentines Day is over and it is on to the rest of the year. Have Boujie girls been dating for no reason and still complaining about the “lack of good men” out there to date? As you start to move forward this year, it is time to think about what…

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It’s Valentines Day… Should You Give it Up?

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It is good to have sex for no reason or without purpose. Just because it is Valentines Day doesn’t mean you have to call up whomever and offer them the luxury and petting your kitty. After all, today is just one day, after tomorrow, how are you going to feel…

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Bitter On Valentines Day? Don’t Be!

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Before anyone goes and slits their wrist today, it is important to remember what Valentines Day really is about. It is not just a day for couples, it is a day to send extra love to someone you care about.

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Another Facebook Rant

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There is no such thing as “It is complicated” in a relationship. Either you are together or you are not. If there is a gray area, then you are not. Do not leave yourself in an area where the other person can have the choice to choose someone else over…

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Chris Brown and Rihanna…and Karrueche Tran???

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Are you the woman that the man is using until his main squeeze comes back? What many women do not pay attention to is when they get with a guy, who clearly is still hung up on his ex, is the waiting period before you are thrown out of his…

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7 Things Men Don’t Care About…

Men are visual and simple sexual beings. When they are getting to know a woman, there are a few things he cares about and even lesser things he doesn’t care about. Some of those things are things we over think. When getting to know a man, we want details, for…

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Moving In… Does it Prevent Marriage or Put You On a Waiting List?

For many boujie girls, moving in with the right guy is a major step. They have passed our checklist, unless you have been dipping in un-boujie like conduct such as moving in someone with no job or aspirations… :/ If in five years you are asking yourself if he is…

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