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Left at the Alter? Can you forgive him?

Men may not be aware of how damaging humiliation is until it happens to them. Rapper, “Game” was supposed to get married but called off his wedding to his fiancée. In his tweets, he stated how much of a wonderful woman she was to him and if men had half…

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Does the kind of Car He Drives Really Matter???

Be suspicious of any man that brags about his car a little too soon. Be suspicious of a man that brags period. People who brag tend to hide someone behind the boasting. The thing with cars is it doesn’t say too much about the person at all. For those of…

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Do my bra and panties have to match???

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When it comes to bras and panties, the answer of if you need to match them or not, is not always. The reason is because most of the time you can match anything with black and white. If you are going out, have a date or just chilling with your…

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Happy Hump Day: IF you pull out the Lube will it kill the moment???

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Picture this, you are leaving the restaurant, hopefully not some lame fast food place, you are all giggles because of the footsy you were playing at the table. You are making kissy faces. Holding hands the entire drive home. Now that you have made it, you both rip off each…

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Snooping…. Boujie Girls are F for Faboulus… not F for FBI!

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When anyone goes into a relationship the first few months are usually pretty good. If they are not, that is a sure sign you are not in the right relationship, but only later down the road will you notice these warning signs. But I digress.

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12 MEN to avoid in 2012

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I went in pretty hard on the ladies we need to avoid for the New Year, now it’s time to tackle the fellez. Quit frankly, I’m mad at myself for making this list so short but I do plan on writing a book about all this so don’t worry ladies,…

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Freaky things men want that shock women

If you are serious and choose to take off the condom, make sure you and your partner are monogamous. Know what the possibilities are of pregnancies and what you want in both of your futures. Get tested together so you know where each other stand. Be safe…sheesh I know if feels good but pills and shots don’t feel good either. Neither do crying babies!

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Dating Down the New Trend?

It is not wonder that most boujie girls hold higher positions like lawyers, accountants, office managers, ahem professors J , authors, etc. The truth is most of the men up where we are career and salary wise either can’t stand a boujie girl and run, or the market is smaller. The bigger dating market is the blue-collar man. I’m not saying the blue-collar man is any less then the baller, but they are more available. The pool of men who reach the high standard for boujie girls are getting smaller and smaller every day, so why fight and claw at that small pool of boujie men? Go for the nicer less maintenance guy. He might not have everything you have ladies, but it’s not about things, it’s about how he treats you.

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Shit “Very Smart Brothers” Say (Shit Bougie Black Girls Say Rebuttal)

“I hate Bougie girls!”

Yeah right! You are either mad because you can’t seem to get with us or that’s all you want. Let’s be real, if you don’t like bougie women so much why all the freaking talk!?

Don’t lie, you know classy women who has their own and with a brain is a bigger turn on that those other “ratchet” women. You know our bougie ways turn you on so much that you will do whatever it takes just for a moment with us. The attraction is clear the only problem is… it’s going to take more than a black card, some slick talk, and a nice car to keep us. You might get us but I don’t know about keeping. Step your game up, brah!

**drops mic and walks off stage**

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Things Guys Don’t Understand About Boujie Girls

Nothing will get you dumped faster when you decided to act like your boujie girl ain’t going nowhere. I have news for all of you men who think you don’t have to do anything to make your girl feel special. YOU WILL GET DUMPED. I understand the honeymoon period is over and you are settled in your relationship and all, but damn did you have to flip on us? I saw a guy swing a door open and didn’t even wait for his girl to walk through. You don’t want to hold the door bro!? (I woulda left by the way) I mean if you act a certain way early in the relationship, we are going to expect you to stay consistent. Why change? Keep the fires going or you will get burned!!!!

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Holiday Time…Should you ask him for a present?

Here are the rules, Boujie Girls do not have to ask for anything. Don’t ask him SHIT. If he doesn’t know to get you at least a card, then you should know what to do with him. Some of you are expecting extravagant gifts and it has only been 3 months. If he didn’t start with extravagant gifts then don’t hold your breath. If it has been six years and you never got anything but a card…again- DON’T HOLD YOUR BREATH!

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I’m his what?! His Concubine

If you are in a relationship with a man who will not commit to you, you are a concubine.
If he is married and is promising to leave his wife for you, you are a concubine.
If he is only going to your house and you have never been to his house, you are a concubine.
If none of his friends or family know who you are, you are a concubine.
If you hear from him every once in a while and it’s just for sex or when he hits you up for money, you are a concubine and possibly an ATM.

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Catch a Baller

I’m sorry, 30-40 plus year old rappers need not apply. “Starting my own record label and I’m about to blow,” also, please do not apply. Short man syndrome, complaining that all women want is money and tall dudes with big dicks, DO NOT APPLY! Who wouldn’t want a nice tall man, with a big dick and money?! PLEASE!

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Beyonce Is Pregnant…Does that give Boujie Girls Hope to Take their Time?

She is the perfect definition of doing you Boujie Style. Beyonce took her time to date someone, marry them and then have a baby. Some of us are going backwards. This isn’t how all families have to be but you can not knock how much better this can work.

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He’s Such A Gentleman

Now, before I get a call from my ex’s lawyer claiming I’m ruining his name or some bullshit, let me be clear. My ex was very polite, he opened our car doors for me (except that time when he tried to throw me out the car…but it’s all good.) held the door open for me to walk through and was pretty chivalrous for the most part but he never held out my chair. I only saw that in movies.

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