Tag Archives: Not How It Works

Can You Date Ugly?

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So in the world of dating and dumping in your 30s, I’ve come to the realization that love really goes beyond what we see. When you’re younger, you usually only date men who are appealing to your eyes but as you get older, we over look things…. sometimes. So now…

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Who Should Pay on A Date?

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There is a video about a guy explaining women should offer to pay on the first date or on a date period floating around on Facebook has all the guys are fired up. My thoughts are people see a title on a page and repost without watching the video and…

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Texting Someone’s Husband

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So there I was having cocktails with friends and the issue came up with one girl being friends with her friend’s husband. The issue was the married couple were having problems and the wife, her friend, texted her to not reach out to her husband because they were going through…

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Zip the Lips.. A Woman’s Grace

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I’ve learned, when you are going through something, it’s better to quiet yourself down before you speak. People are so quick to offer advice about your house when their own house is on fire. While I know the need to vent, especially for women, is important, clear your mind first….

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Not Talking To Me Honey

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I was supposed to go on a date with a guy and cancelled last minute because I just wasn’t ready to date. I was newly single and was overwhelmed. Well he called me at 2 am and cursed me out saying I could have been the one and I was…

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Phaedra and Apollo For Better or Nah?

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Anyone who follows the Real Housewives of Atlanta is aware of Apollo Nida’s, Phaedra Parks’s husband, recent charges for bank fraud and identity theft, which he pleaded guilty for. Now he is facing 8 years in prison. Apollo, for anyone hasn’t watched the show, has been in prison before and…

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Putting it Off… The Dangers

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Hump Day is usually a day when most people honestly don’t get humped. The phrase used to and still does represent the middle of the work week and people are generally tired. What happened if this exhaustion continues? What if you work to the point that you become so drained…

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Pity Proposal

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There comes a time in a relationship when a man and a woman decide it is time to take things a step further and make it not only official but legalize your love. He might get down on one knee and propose. Show up with a ring over dinner. He…

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Hump Day Files: Oh He’s Gay Now?

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Nothing screams bitter than when a woman claims a man is gay after they broke up. It is tacky and useless really. We have discussed this before; do not blast your ex! While driving to my work, I was listening to the radio station and heard Kordell Stewart, former NFL…

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Side Hoes Are NOT Winning!

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As much as you all have a guilty pleasure of watching all these women fight and argue, get married and divorced, dating and breaking up and side bitches getting rings and getting married on TV. (Mainly Vh1, Bravo and other networks that promote foolery) Have no fear in ten years…

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We Ain’t Friends No Mo

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When people enter their adult life, there are a few things they should notice changing. Other than the load of opportunity, responsibility, and weight change, your surroundings change as well. The people you once considered your best friends aren’t. It isn’t that you are enemies; you just are not as…

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Hump Day Files: Threesome?

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After watching a rerun of Sex in the City yesterday, I thought about why men would want another woman in the bedroom. It’s odd for them to want another man there, but two women and a man can either be a fantasy come true or your worst nightmare. No disrespect…

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What if You Knew Miley Cyrus?

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I haven’t said anything about the “wildin’ out” new Miley. I always assumed Disney squeaky clean stars eventually lose it and fall apart, so her ridiculous behavior did not faze me.  But like, what if that was your home girl? How many of us ladies have that one friend that…

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Could You Date A Celebrity?

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A lot of women look at some of these stars and think how amazing these people look on TV, magazines and such. Some even claim them as their husbands, baby fathers, girl crush, wifey, whatever your preference! But can you imagine dating a celebrity? Sometimes the fame and glamour looks…

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Sticks and Words…

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It is very interesting when people say they do not care about what other people say about them. While this is very true and there are people who are just going to talk, there are some people you always want to have their respect. As boujie girls, your reputation is…

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