Tag Archives: Not How It Works

Never Wear the Same Outfit Twice in a Row!

You piece the freaking puzzle. Boujie Rule! No more repeat outfits unless they are at least two weeks apart!!!!!

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How much bigger does your TV need to be?

To my fellow Boujie girls, as long as you meet your needs, there is no reason to feed your wants. After all you’ve earned it. I do not want to hear about your wants coming before baby food! That is just not the Boujie way! God, family, then you. Try it.

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“I think You’re Beautiful and I want to get to know you so give me your number.”

How about just “Hi, you look really nice,” with a smile or bring up something interesting that would strike up a conversation. Very few things can scare a woman, but one thing that can scare us off is a wayyyy too eager man. Just a tip!

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Is Craigslist the New E-Harmony?

I think you need to feel out people first. I always say make in an investment if you are going to find love on the net personally. If people don’t make the time to set up a profile, how serious are they?

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Top 10 Things You Never Tell A Boujie Girl

If you want to get with a Boujie Girl…know what to not say before you open your mouth.

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Going Home

Then there is the other side of the cookie. Don’t leave because of problems. I hear they follow you anyways! Don’t leave because you can’t tough it out or you hear someone tell you, “you ain’t doing anything out there so come back!” Tough it out. Make it so that going home is not an option. You left for a reason and you need to accomplish what you came to do. Make a new plan for what you have left and deal with it. Be successful with what you had and make it bigger.

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Blasting My Ex

Wrap your minds around this, when it’s over, it’s just that over. Get excited about better. If you thought that person was the shit, imagine what’s to come. Usually in the near future you realize they really were not all that they were cracked up to be anyways, but you can now chop it up to life’s experience. Sorry Reggie, you sexy motha….

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Who are you sex-texting?

Do something sexy like at the movies, the nasty picture you took, show it to them calmly like a text message and put your phone away. It’s random and exciting. If you are going to do it, do it smart.

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No Thanks Buddy!

Either way, I’m shutting doors and looking forward. I don’t like to play games but I don’t like to be bothered either. Where are the genuine people?!

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Goodbye Mackie?!

I thought it was sweet until I find out I was deleted of his Facebook?! Oh what the hell. Nonsense like that doesn’t move me. I think it’s safe to say, take your time getting to know people. I’m confident within 30-90 days their true colors surface and the representative you met will fade. Make better decisions when meeting people! UH!

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So I’m Boujie Huh?

Today, when I am dealing with people, I learned to get out of the habit of reacting. I used to argue, shout, even slap to get what I felt I deserved, but now I earn it. If I’m being treated unfairly, before I react, I retreat, rethink then handle. I am out of the businesses of dealing with people who don’t matter, used to matter or don’t deserve my respect. I am in the business of becoming who I am supposed to be, a writer / college professor soon to be PhD candidate. If I’m called Boujie for being who I am, then I will coin it and move on.

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Excuse me but get out my life…thanks!

Some people thought I completely lost my mind and decided I needed to spend more time with them to figure out why it is that I suddenly “need space”. Others texted me back, “Well Fu%$# you too!” Oh my!

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Stupid Facebook Part 1

And why do some people have fan pages? I know mine is to promote my blog and other writing but become a fan of you because you are just that wonderful? No I do not think so pal!

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Are We Becoming Plastic?

“Get to know me before you hate me!” – Samantha Jones from Sex in the City. I’m sure some would say, fake hair, eye lashes, contacts, body, boobs, lips, cheeks or whatever we do to our bodies is a lack of confidence thing but sometimes, at least for me, I just want to look good. I’m a BOUJIE MACK! Of course I want to stick out but not in a bad way.

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The Dream and Christina Milian

I hope for The Dream’s sake he finds an understanding with himself. For a man who is I believe 29 or 30ish, he needs to find peace in what he’s doing with his life. He has 4 children and possibly 2 ex wives? It’s clear this behavior is detrimental to his life. He doesn’t need blogs and other media outlets to push him down any further. According to some news reports, he attempted suicide? That is serious!

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