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Texting Someone’s Husband

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So there I was having cocktails with friends and the issue came up with one girl being friends with her friend’s husband. The issue was the married couple were having problems and the wife, her friend, texted her to not reach out to her husband because they were going through…

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Zip the Lips.. A Woman’s Grace

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I’ve learned, when you are going through something, it’s better to quiet yourself down before you speak. People are so quick to offer advice about your house when their own house is on fire. While I know the need to vent, especially for women, is important, clear your mind first….

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Do We Ever Really Get Over An Ex?

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While scrolling through Instagram, I saw a quote that said you never really get over someone you really loved, you learn to live without them and the thought of not being with them. I paused for a second. I thought about my ex-husband and thought, uh.. yeah I’m over that…

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Artificial Balls?

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When I think of cosmetic surgery, I think about boob jobs, face lifts, ass injections and so on. Sometimes cosmetic surgery is needed, like when I got my boobs done, I got them reduced. One thing that never comes to mind is if a guy has some kind of surgery. When…

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Phaedra and Apollo For Better or Nah?

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Anyone who follows the Real Housewives of Atlanta is aware of Apollo Nida’s, Phaedra Parks’s husband, recent charges for bank fraud and identity theft, which he pleaded guilty for. Now he is facing 8 years in prison. Apollo, for anyone hasn’t watched the show, has been in prison before and…

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Putting it Off… The Dangers

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Hump Day is usually a day when most people honestly don’t get humped. The phrase used to and still does represent the middle of the work week and people are generally tired. What happened if this exhaustion continues? What if you work to the point that you become so drained…

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Will the mistress ever be accepted?

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With so much talk on mistresses having a better hand when it comes to relationships, one has to wonder what life is like after they become, well the main woman. If a man decided to make his mistress honorable by marrying or her claiming her is his woman, does the…

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Siding with the Enemy: Part II Relationships

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When a couple breaks up, what happens to the friends in the middle!? This is a topic many people struggle with and it continues to be debated. When you are thinking of boujie girl code, look at the bottom line. Remember, at some point everything you do cycles and will…

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Another Facebook Rant

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There is no such thing as “It is complicated” in a relationship. Either you are together or you are not. If there is a gray area, then you are not. Do not leave yourself in an area where the other person can have the choice to choose someone else over…

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I-Want-Her-Life- Syndrome

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There is a syndrome that has not been diagnosed. The “I-want-her-life- drom”. It comes from a mixture of low self-esteem and a tad of envy. Jealousy is not apart of it because jealously comes from hate. Envy is a little different. Envy is an emotion that comes from self-pity.

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Befriending your Friend’s Enemy?

Not everyone is mature. No matter how old people are, they have some childish ways that are stuck with them. When you are dealing with friends, particularly close ones, you are dealing with people who may not be fans of them. Tread lightly with how you handle people who are…

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Tasty Thursdays… Things Boujie Girls Should Say No To…

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As we talk about things we want and don’t want. There are things boujie girls need to learn to just say no to. IT goes beyond drugs and sexy guy with the girlfriend. There are other pressing things you need to turn away from, especially if you are under pressure….

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Left at the Alter? Can you forgive him?

Men may not be aware of how damaging humiliation is until it happens to them. Rapper, “Game” was supposed to get married but called off his wedding to his fiancée. In his tweets, he stated how much of a wonderful woman she was to him and if men had half…

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Snooping…. Boujie Girls are F for Faboulus… not F for FBI!

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When anyone goes into a relationship the first few months are usually pretty good. If they are not, that is a sure sign you are not in the right relationship, but only later down the road will you notice these warning signs. But I digress.

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12 MEN to avoid in 2012

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I went in pretty hard on the ladies we need to avoid for the New Year, now it’s time to tackle the fellez. Quit frankly, I’m mad at myself for making this list so short but I do plan on writing a book about all this so don’t worry ladies,…

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