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Can You Talk To Your Ex

So a friend of mine tagged me in this post on Facebook about two exes talking to each other in a room and sitting across from one another. (Link at the bottom) It was an honest conversation between two young people about what happened to their relationship. With him cheating,…

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Texting Someone’s Husband

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So there I was having cocktails with friends and the issue came up with one girl being friends with her friend’s husband. The issue was the married couple were having problems and the wife, her friend, texted her to not reach out to her husband because they were going through…

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Never Let Them See You Sweat

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My mother told me it was not nice that I referred to some women as whores, and she is right; however, if it looks like a whore and acts like one, it’s whore baby. As ladies, when a woman is blatantly pushing up on your man, the WORST thing you…

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Revenge Phuck Warrants…

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Anyone who has ever been cheated on knows the thoughts that run through a betrayed person’s head. We think about killing the person, killing the other woman (sometimes man!) or even ourselves. These dangerous thoughts manifest until we are ready to process the next step. When we are in our…

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Phaedra and Apollo For Better or Nah?

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Anyone who follows the Real Housewives of Atlanta is aware of Apollo Nida’s, Phaedra Parks’s husband, recent charges for bank fraud and identity theft, which he pleaded guilty for. Now he is facing 8 years in prison. Apollo, for anyone hasn’t watched the show, has been in prison before and…

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Side Hoes Are NOT Winning!

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As much as you all have a guilty pleasure of watching all these women fight and argue, get married and divorced, dating and breaking up and side bitches getting rings and getting married on TV. (Mainly Vh1, Bravo and other networks that promote foolery) Have no fear in ten years…

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Hump Day Files: When to Take the Condom Off

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Never! Just kidding. Honestly, after you have been with someone for a while, it is normal to stop using condoms and use other contraceptives when being intimate. The spreading of STDs isn’t because people who are in relationships are having sex with each other, it is because people are having…

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Hump Day Files: When Should I Give It Up?

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When you are on the prowl to find Mr. Right and had enough of Mr. Wrong, Mr. Lame, Mr. Too Many Kids, Mr. Right Now and worst of all Mr. Ain’t Doing Shit with His Life, you have to set the bar and cut off ties to men you want…

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Convenience or Temporary Shacking

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One of the few things about Steve Harvey’s book, “Think Like a Man” that made sense was how to be aware of a man’s intentions. When you are deciding to move in with your significant other, be clear about why both of you want to shack up. In this economy,…

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Siding with the Enemy: Part I Friendship

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All good things come to an end, especially in friendships. What happens when boujie girls find themselves at odds in a friendship gone bad with a cool person who is now their BFF’s enemy? Boujie Girl problems! To answer the question of girl code, if she is my enemy, she…

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Are You Dating For No Reason?

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Valentines Day is over and it is on to the rest of the year. Have Boujie girls been dating for no reason and still complaining about the “lack of good men” out there to date? As you start to move forward this year, it is time to think about what…

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It’s Valentines Day… Should You Give it Up?

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It is good to have sex for no reason or without purpose. Just because it is Valentines Day doesn’t mean you have to call up whomever and offer them the luxury and petting your kitty. After all, today is just one day, after tomorrow, how are you going to feel…

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Another Facebook Rant

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There is no such thing as “It is complicated” in a relationship. Either you are together or you are not. If there is a gray area, then you are not. Do not leave yourself in an area where the other person can have the choice to choose someone else over…

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So you a hoe? Part II

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To salvage your reputation or resist getting this kind of title, it is better to know why you are making these kinds of decisions in the first place. Before you sleep with someone, do you know why you are getting it in??? Don’t wait until later to ask him if…

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Thirsty Tuesday… Can you reverse your “ho” title???

For a man, when he categories his women, the title tends to stay there. After talking to some brothers about the subject of thinking that some women are hoes, their responses were mainly the same. “If I think she’s a hoe I don’t really change my mind…it is what it…

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