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Can You Talk To Your Ex

So a friend of mine tagged me in this post on Facebook about two exes talking to each other in a room and sitting across from one another. (Link at the bottom) It was an honest conversation between two young people about what happened to their relationship. With him cheating,…

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Who Should Pay on A Date?

There is a video about a guy explaining women should offer to pay on the first date or on a date period floating around on Facebook has all the guys are fired up. My thoughts are people see a title on a page and repost without watching the video and…

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Pack Rat or Hoarder of Feelings

So in purging and getting rid of things from 2015, because yes it’s been a shitty year, not the entire time but major events led it to be pretty shitty so I’m getting a head start. There are things I’ve come across that aren’t mine. To be totally vulnerable for…

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Do We Ever Really Get Over An Ex?

While scrolling through Instagram, I saw a quote that said you never really get over someone you really loved, you learn to live without them and the thought of not being with them. I paused for a second. I thought about my ex-husband and thought, uh.. yeah I’m over that…

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Artificial Balls?

When I think of cosmetic surgery, I think about boob jobs, face lifts, ass injections and so on. Sometimes cosmetic surgery is needed, like when I got my boobs done, I got them reduced. One thing that never comes to mind is if a guy has some kind of surgery. When…

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After the Wedding Day?

Ok so hear is the deal, many women plan their wedding and not their life after the wedding. In other words they plan for the wedding day and not for the day after. They see themselves as a bride, in that beautiful wedding dress (Say Yes to the Dress), they…

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Real Housewife an Example of Real Life

I watched last night’s episode of… sigh yes, the Real Housewives of Atlanta. It’s my guilty pleasure and yes, I am ashamed to say I watch that crap. 🙂 But the big thing about last nights episode was one of the Housewives, Phaedra Parks, husband is going to prison. I’ve blogged…

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Have A Life and A Husband Part II

It’s hard for me to recognize sometimes when I’m pushing myself too hard which is why it’s been important for my family, particularly my son to be open about when he needs me. I’ve always made time for his special events, and we usually had a weekly date night where…

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Have a Life and A Husband Part 1

Now, I just turned 38. I’ve been married for the better part of 19 years, and my son is 14 years old. My first job was babysitting at 13, and I’ve worked pretty much ever since. So for the past 25 years, I have pushed myself well beyond exhaustion, put…

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Wives Wednesday: What You Should Do For Him Part II

I’ve been with my husband for six years and married to him for two years.  Although we, of course, work to keep it fresh, at times it can be pretty routine.  Life can become more about completing tasks—cleaning, cooking, working, laundry, etc—than actually living.  The trick, I think, is to…

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How You Talk To Him

There are three types of women. Ones who are blunt and speak their minds, ones who are more quiet and tend to bite their tongues and there are the ones in between, the firecrackers. There is no way to know which one she is and it depends on her mood….

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Ask A Wife: Helen Rhoads

If you don’t pay any attention to the rest of the blog posts I write/ post, listen to this. DO NOT marry a person you are not willing to FIGHT tooth-and-nail, to-the-death for!!  Just don’t do it. Now, before you go saying “but what about” or “but you don’t know about”,…

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Day One: Why Do You Want to Get Married?

Today is the first day of the challenge. I am asking all of you ladies, who are doing it, to keep a journal throughout the process. You are going to take notes and journal what you are learning about yourself. To begin, the first question I want to ask is…

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Phaedra and Apollo For Better or Nah?

Anyone who follows the Real Housewives of Atlanta is aware of Apollo Nida’s, Phaedra Parks’s husband, recent charges for bank fraud and identity theft, which he pleaded guilty for. Now he is facing 8 years in prison. Apollo, for anyone hasn’t watched the show, has been in prison before and…

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Should the Size of the Bling Matter?

One of our happiest moments is when a man gets down on one knee and asks for our hand in marriage. We get so excited to know this person wants to spend the rest of their lives with us. And to show his devotion, he presents us with a ring….

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