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I’m Not Kenneka Jenkins

The news story about the young girl, Kenneka Jenkins reported this 19-year-old girl was found dead in a freezer at a hotel. What boggles me about this story is she went to a hotel party, got drunk and ended up dead in a freezer?! There is speculation that she was…

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Can You Talk To Your Ex

So a friend of mine tagged me in this post on Facebook about two exes talking to each other in a room and sitting across from one another. (Link at the bottom) It was an honest conversation between two young people about what happened to their relationship. With him cheating,…

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Who’s Your Valentine?

Valentines Day is one of those days that either gets you excited or makes you depressed. Personally, I love Valentines Day. Why? A reason to eat a lot of chocolate without judgment? I’m there. The reason people hate it is because they might feel like they don’t have someone to…

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To Love or Like?

Alright, so I took a break from talking about relationships because I wasn’t in one and believe me I’ll soon tell you about my dating madness and ex in another post. As I take a break from grading, I find myself quite perplexed these days. So I’m dating someone new, I…

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Wait… I’m Pretty?!

I’m going to be featured in a magazine coming out soon. The editor asked me to send him some headshots if I have them or I’d have to set up a photoshoot. A little while back, I had a big photoshoot with 800 pictures. I honestly only liked about 6. I…

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Can You Date Ugly?

So in the world of dating and dumping in your 30s, I’ve come to the realization that love really goes beyond what we see. When you’re younger, you usually only date men who are appealing to your eyes but as you get older, we over look things…. sometimes. So now…

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Who Should Pay on A Date?

There is a video about a guy explaining women should offer to pay on the first date or on a date period floating around on Facebook has all the guys are fired up. My thoughts are people see a title on a page and repost without watching the video and…

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He hates Dogs…

Ok so yours truly went on a date. Oh lord. We grabbed a bite to eat and some drinks. In the mist of conversation, I talked about my little dog because you know, I love him. He asked me if I’m ‘one of those chicks’ who is obsessed with her dog….

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Loyal to Your Job or Nah?

2016 is the year of growth and prosperity. Believe it and walk with it. I have a lot of friends of mine who are so loyal to their jobs and never want to leave. It worries me because one thing I’ve learned is never get attached to something that isn’t…

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Dateless Boujie Mack

Nothing annoys me more than a man who’s just plain stupid. They say you can’t measure intelligence but some men are 6 feet of just plain stupid. I was talking to this guy, recently, and he was asking what I did for a living. I told him and he said…

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High Standards or I respect Myself?

So the feedback I got from my almost date was I should have given neighbor boy a chance. Here’s why I say fuck no. First of all, it’s common courtesy to let someone know well in advance that you aren’t going to make an engagement. Do not wait until the…

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Bruh, Your Number was Never Saved!

After getting out of a long-term relationship, making the decision to date is important but annoying. It’s annoying because you have people in your ear constantly pushing others on you or saying you should “get yourself out there”. Let me tell you, those who are starting over, until you’re ready,…

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Pack Rat or Hoarder of Feelings

So in purging and getting rid of things from 2015, because yes it’s been a shitty year, not the entire time but major events led it to be pretty shitty so I’m getting a head start. There are things I’ve come across that aren’t mine. To be totally vulnerable for…

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Texting Someone’s Husband

So there I was having cocktails with friends and the issue came up with one girl being friends with her friend’s husband. The issue was the married couple were having problems and the wife, her friend, texted her to not reach out to her husband because they were going through…

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Zip the Lips.. A Woman’s Grace

I’ve learned, when you are going through something, it’s better to quiet yourself down before you speak. People are so quick to offer advice about your house when their own house is on fire. While I know the need to vent, especially for women, is important, clear your mind first….

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